How To Save Your Marriage and Stop Your Divorce : Let's Start Talking Againby Cucan Pemo
It’s a fact that more marriages end in divorce than those that last. It used to be that marriages really were forever. The phrase “’till death do us part” was actually meant when it was uttered during wedding vows.
Now, we see or hear about celebrities who marry for 18 hours and couples that get hitched only to get legal status in one country or another.
Marriage is not a word that should be taken lightly, yet it is on a daily basis. But what do you do when your marriage is starting to fall apart, when everything you want is slowly slipping away? You rescue it.
1) Rescuing the Relationship
To save your relationship, you must first figure out what is causing it to fall apart.
Do you and your spouse talk about things, or are you too busy working and raising your family to discuss what’s going on? Have you gone on a date in the last six months?
Do you fight and argue all the time, or has one of you cheated on the other? What is causing the relationship to break down? Let’s face it; you don’t just wake up one morning and say, “I think I’d like a divorce today.” In order to figure out what’s going (or gone) wrong in your relationship, you need to take a step back from your feelings to observe what is going on. If you fight frequently, write down the things you fight about. Write down the amount of time you’ve spent together in the last few days, and write down what you were doing when you weren’t spending time together. You will want to get everything straight in your head before you start to talk to your spouse about your problems and what you think might be damaging your relationship.
2) Talking—It’s Not Overrated
After you have gathered your information, approach your spouse.
Make sure you go into the discussion calmly and rationally. You also want to make sure that you’re not accosting or accusing, but rather asking and questioning.
If you go into the talk too aggressively, you are going to turn them off and nothing will get answered or resolved. Make sure you lay everything out on the table, from the things that are bothering you to the things that you wish you did more of together.
Explain that you want to know how your spouse is feeling, and that you care about where they want the relationship to go.
3) Scheduling
If you have a busy schedule, you may want to make an appointment to have this discussion. Actually, making a schedule for the two of you on a weekly basis is an excellent idea.
All parents know that children thrive on routine, which is why they have a time to wake up, a time to eat, and a time to go to bed. Relationships thrive on a somewhat of a timed schedule, as well.
For instance, take the case of my friend and her husband. Both of them spend every Saturday night together. They have young children, so most of the time they stay in instead of going out. They will rent a movie and either get take-out or some quick meal they can throw together once the kids have gone to bed.
They leave the lights on in the living room long enough to eat their meal, and then, once that’s done, they put the dishes in the sink (they will still be there the next day, so there’s no reason to spoil the mood by doing them), turn the lights off and snuggle together to watch the rest of the movie. They don’t talk about anything except the movie, and make sure that they are touching each other as much as they can.
It is not “un-romantic” to schedule time to be with your spouse. Make sure that you get some time together, whether it’s going out together, or staying in watching a movie. For myself and my boyfriend, sometimes we’ll pull out a board game, add some alcohol, and have a great night being silly together.
As you get along in your relationship, you come to take each other for granted. Spending fun, relaxing time together is one great way to get your relationship back on track.
If you’re thinking about filing for divorce because you can’t stand the fighting anymore, stop. Think about why you are fighting, and try to put yourself in your partner’s shoes. When you love each other and put a little work into it, marriages really can last forever.
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How To Save Your Marriage - With Touch and Sex
How To Save Your Marriage - With Touch and Sex by Cucan Pemo
There are a number of things that can cause a solid marriage to crumble. One minute you’re eating pot roast gathered around the dinner table; the next you’re watching your spouse pack up the family vehicle and you’re torn between despair, anger, and a broken heart.
Your mind may be racing through the past few years, remembering when you first got together, to the last discussion you had. Is it possible to go back and change things? No. You can’t change the past, no matter how many years you’ve been together—but you can start fixing things between the two of you.
1) Sit. Relax. Talk.
In order to fix your marriage, you need to get on even ground again. Right now you may be feeling as though things are extremely lumpy between the two of you, so you need to even out the playing field. Schedule a time when the two of you can sit and talk.
If it’s possible, get to neutral territory. Here is what one of my friends did when she had a fight with her husband and which I felt was very effective. When her husband and herself were having a huge fight, they called a babysitter to come watch their children and took off.
They didn’t talk about anything in the car, but instead drove to a beautiful river about 15 minutes from their house. She told me they sat by the river and talked about what was going on in their marriage, and about how they could fix it. Being by the river relaxed my friend, and being out of theirr home relaxed her husband. It was the perfect spot for them to talk about our problems. A change of environment can do wonders if you are having a good discussion.
There are a few rules you have to both agree upon before you have a discussion.
a. No yelling. Yelling is not conducive to solving your problem. It does nothing but anger your spouse and cause negative emotions to escalate, so avoid it at all costs.b. Stick to the issues. Don’t drag things in from years ago that have already been settled. If your spouse cheated on you 10 years ago, but you’ve forgiven them and they haven’t touched another person since, don’t drag that into the battle. Leave the past alone and work on the present and the future.c. Time yourselves. Some people tend to be so passionate that they don’t let their partner get a word in edgewise. Bring an egg timer along and give yourself a specific amount of time to talk.
If you are able to follow these rules, you can have a discussion and get down to what is really making the foundation of the marriage crack.
2) Forgive
Once you’ve figured out what the problem is, you need to forgive it. It may sound a bit strange, but you need to forgive the relationship for not being perfect.
After all, the relationship is made by the people in it, and nobody’s perfect, which means that no relationship will be perfect.
Understand and forgive that. Once you’ve gotten everything out, you should either be on the same page, or agreeing to disagree, which is fine as well. The whole point of talking is to be able to focus on the problem and get rid of it, or learn to deal with it.
3) Touch
Once your marriage is a little less shaky, it’s time to build the supports back up.
When is the last time you greeted your spouse at the door with a long hug and kiss when they arrived home from work?
If your spouse comes home after you, greet them at the door. Offer a huge hug and a relaxing kiss so that they can truly transition from being at work to being at home.
When’s the last time you danced together? Dancing is an excellent way to get your bodies used to each other again. Sway to some music in the middle of your living room, or do the jitter bug in your kitchen!
Enjoying each other is a wonderful way to keep things fresh and healthy between the two of you.
4) Sex
You do not want sex to be the most important thing in your relationship, but it needs to factor in at some point. Sex releases endorphins, which elevates your mood.
It’s a way for the two of you to connect that you can share with no one else, and is both stimulating and comforting. Sometimes we get so busy we forget to spend time together in bed; so schedule time! Make it a date! For example, every Wednesday night you can shut things down early and meet each other in the middle of your bed.
When you learn to talk openly and spend plenty of time touching, enjoying each other, and making love, your relationship has nowhere to go but up.
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There are a number of things that can cause a solid marriage to crumble. One minute you’re eating pot roast gathered around the dinner table; the next you’re watching your spouse pack up the family vehicle and you’re torn between despair, anger, and a broken heart.
Your mind may be racing through the past few years, remembering when you first got together, to the last discussion you had. Is it possible to go back and change things? No. You can’t change the past, no matter how many years you’ve been together—but you can start fixing things between the two of you.
1) Sit. Relax. Talk.
In order to fix your marriage, you need to get on even ground again. Right now you may be feeling as though things are extremely lumpy between the two of you, so you need to even out the playing field. Schedule a time when the two of you can sit and talk.
If it’s possible, get to neutral territory. Here is what one of my friends did when she had a fight with her husband and which I felt was very effective. When her husband and herself were having a huge fight, they called a babysitter to come watch their children and took off.
They didn’t talk about anything in the car, but instead drove to a beautiful river about 15 minutes from their house. She told me they sat by the river and talked about what was going on in their marriage, and about how they could fix it. Being by the river relaxed my friend, and being out of theirr home relaxed her husband. It was the perfect spot for them to talk about our problems. A change of environment can do wonders if you are having a good discussion.
There are a few rules you have to both agree upon before you have a discussion.
a. No yelling. Yelling is not conducive to solving your problem. It does nothing but anger your spouse and cause negative emotions to escalate, so avoid it at all costs.b. Stick to the issues. Don’t drag things in from years ago that have already been settled. If your spouse cheated on you 10 years ago, but you’ve forgiven them and they haven’t touched another person since, don’t drag that into the battle. Leave the past alone and work on the present and the future.c. Time yourselves. Some people tend to be so passionate that they don’t let their partner get a word in edgewise. Bring an egg timer along and give yourself a specific amount of time to talk.
If you are able to follow these rules, you can have a discussion and get down to what is really making the foundation of the marriage crack.
2) Forgive
Once you’ve figured out what the problem is, you need to forgive it. It may sound a bit strange, but you need to forgive the relationship for not being perfect.
After all, the relationship is made by the people in it, and nobody’s perfect, which means that no relationship will be perfect.
Understand and forgive that. Once you’ve gotten everything out, you should either be on the same page, or agreeing to disagree, which is fine as well. The whole point of talking is to be able to focus on the problem and get rid of it, or learn to deal with it.
3) Touch
Once your marriage is a little less shaky, it’s time to build the supports back up.
When is the last time you greeted your spouse at the door with a long hug and kiss when they arrived home from work?
If your spouse comes home after you, greet them at the door. Offer a huge hug and a relaxing kiss so that they can truly transition from being at work to being at home.
When’s the last time you danced together? Dancing is an excellent way to get your bodies used to each other again. Sway to some music in the middle of your living room, or do the jitter bug in your kitchen!
Enjoying each other is a wonderful way to keep things fresh and healthy between the two of you.
4) Sex
You do not want sex to be the most important thing in your relationship, but it needs to factor in at some point. Sex releases endorphins, which elevates your mood.
It’s a way for the two of you to connect that you can share with no one else, and is both stimulating and comforting. Sometimes we get so busy we forget to spend time together in bed; so schedule time! Make it a date! For example, every Wednesday night you can shut things down early and meet each other in the middle of your bed.
When you learn to talk openly and spend plenty of time touching, enjoying each other, and making love, your relationship has nowhere to go but up.
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How To Save Your Relationship : What to Do If You Are Always Arguing!
How To Save Your Relationship : What to Do If You Are Always Arguing! by Cucan Pemo
Most people live full-time with their parents for 18 years. If you meet the one whom you’re meant to be with before you’re 30 years old, you will hopefully end up spending more than 30 years with them. This means that you’ll be spending more than double the time with your spouse than you spent with your parents.
With such a large amount of time being spent with another person, it’s a given that you are going to clash now and again. Sometimes, however, the fighting gets so bad that one or the other of you may decide to quit your relationship all together.
So how do you save a relationship that seems to be headed down the toilet?
1) Recognize Reality
The first thing you have to do is recognize why you’re fighting. Are you fighting because you’re truly mad at each other, or are you fighting because you’re upset that some jerk at your office accused you of something you didn’t do?
You live together and are friends, of course, so it makes sense that you take out your moods and pent-up emotions on each other.
However, this can cause a lot of problems. Before your anger escalates to the boiling point, stop and figure out exactly why you’re angry. If you’re frustrated about something at work, let your lover know. They are the person you should be able to turn to when things aren’t going the way you want them to.
2) Find the Calm
The calmer you are, the more likely your spouse will be to take you seriously. People are more likely to listen to the words of a calm person than they are to someone who won’t stop ranting and raving.
One way in which you can learn to remain calm is to take up meditation or yoga. Simple breathing techniques that are taught in these disciplines can help you to learn to stay calm, even in the midst of a really difficult argument. When you learn these breathing techniques, you may be able to stave off the argument entirely, which is one way to help save your relationship.
3) Agree to Disagree
No two people are going to agree on everything all of the time. It would be a pretty boring world if we all did! Take the case of one of my male friends. He believes that his daughter shouldn’t have earrings until she is 14, while his wife believes that she should be allowed to have them anytime after the age of four.
This is an argument that threatened to tear them apart. Finally, they both agreed to disagree about the earring situation. He figured out that, when she got older, she would convince him herself. Sometimes you have to put aside your strong feelings and realize that your lover has strong feelings, as well. It’s perfectly all right to agree to disagree!
4) Teamwork
Instead of fighting against each other, come together and work for, or against, something. If you have children, work toward giving them the best life you can give them.
If you’re against something in your town, work toward getting it resolved. If you’re into sports, join a team together. The couple that plays together, stays together!
5) Dance and Romance
When my boyfriend and I first got together, we used to spend hours just talking late at night. We would both be exhausted the next morning from the time we spent awake, chatting with each other.
As our relationship got further and further apart, we realized that we never stayed up talking anymore. One evening the music was on and I grabbed him and started dancing around the room with him. The simple act made us happy and made us realize how much we loved just being in each other’s arms.
Dance and romance your partner. Sometimes swaying slowly together in a darkened kitchen is one of the nicest ways to reconnect.
Relationships are tricky things. When you put two people together for a long amount of time, they are bound to fight and bicker.
If the bickering gets bad enough, things can disassemble quite quickly. Find ways to show your lover how much you care about them. Put silly little love notes in their lunchbox. Write a message in the steam on the bathroom mirror, so that the next time they take a shower they will see the message.
Grab some lipstick and write “I love you” on their car window while they’re at work or busy doing something else. Realize that nobody’s perfect, and focus more on reconnecting with your loved one rather than winning a battle.
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Most people live full-time with their parents for 18 years. If you meet the one whom you’re meant to be with before you’re 30 years old, you will hopefully end up spending more than 30 years with them. This means that you’ll be spending more than double the time with your spouse than you spent with your parents.
With such a large amount of time being spent with another person, it’s a given that you are going to clash now and again. Sometimes, however, the fighting gets so bad that one or the other of you may decide to quit your relationship all together.
So how do you save a relationship that seems to be headed down the toilet?
1) Recognize Reality
The first thing you have to do is recognize why you’re fighting. Are you fighting because you’re truly mad at each other, or are you fighting because you’re upset that some jerk at your office accused you of something you didn’t do?
You live together and are friends, of course, so it makes sense that you take out your moods and pent-up emotions on each other.
However, this can cause a lot of problems. Before your anger escalates to the boiling point, stop and figure out exactly why you’re angry. If you’re frustrated about something at work, let your lover know. They are the person you should be able to turn to when things aren’t going the way you want them to.
2) Find the Calm
The calmer you are, the more likely your spouse will be to take you seriously. People are more likely to listen to the words of a calm person than they are to someone who won’t stop ranting and raving.
One way in which you can learn to remain calm is to take up meditation or yoga. Simple breathing techniques that are taught in these disciplines can help you to learn to stay calm, even in the midst of a really difficult argument. When you learn these breathing techniques, you may be able to stave off the argument entirely, which is one way to help save your relationship.
3) Agree to Disagree
No two people are going to agree on everything all of the time. It would be a pretty boring world if we all did! Take the case of one of my male friends. He believes that his daughter shouldn’t have earrings until she is 14, while his wife believes that she should be allowed to have them anytime after the age of four.
This is an argument that threatened to tear them apart. Finally, they both agreed to disagree about the earring situation. He figured out that, when she got older, she would convince him herself. Sometimes you have to put aside your strong feelings and realize that your lover has strong feelings, as well. It’s perfectly all right to agree to disagree!
4) Teamwork
Instead of fighting against each other, come together and work for, or against, something. If you have children, work toward giving them the best life you can give them.
If you’re against something in your town, work toward getting it resolved. If you’re into sports, join a team together. The couple that plays together, stays together!
5) Dance and Romance
When my boyfriend and I first got together, we used to spend hours just talking late at night. We would both be exhausted the next morning from the time we spent awake, chatting with each other.
As our relationship got further and further apart, we realized that we never stayed up talking anymore. One evening the music was on and I grabbed him and started dancing around the room with him. The simple act made us happy and made us realize how much we loved just being in each other’s arms.
Dance and romance your partner. Sometimes swaying slowly together in a darkened kitchen is one of the nicest ways to reconnect.
Relationships are tricky things. When you put two people together for a long amount of time, they are bound to fight and bicker.
If the bickering gets bad enough, things can disassemble quite quickly. Find ways to show your lover how much you care about them. Put silly little love notes in their lunchbox. Write a message in the steam on the bathroom mirror, so that the next time they take a shower they will see the message.
Grab some lipstick and write “I love you” on their car window while they’re at work or busy doing something else. Realize that nobody’s perfect, and focus more on reconnecting with your loved one rather than winning a battle.
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Is My Man Cheating: Dealing With Cheaters In Your Relationship!
Is My Man Cheating: Dealing With Cheaters In Your Relationship! by Cucan Pemo
Nothing is more heart-wrenching than when you find out the one you love cheated on you with another person. You feel betrayed, angry, hurt, and frustrated, along with a myriad of other feelings. Is it possible to save a relationship that has been soiled by a cheating lover?
Can the one who was cheated on get over the betrayal, and will the one who cheated do so again?
1) Why Do People Cheat?
Most people will never be able to understand why another person would cheat on the one they love. There are a number of different reasons that both men and women cheat, but one thing is for sure: they believe that by cheating and going outside of the relationship, they can make things better inside the relationship.
Some people feel that they’re not getting what they need from their partner. They feel as though they’re not special to their partner anymore and go outside of the relationship in order to feel special again.
Others simply enjoy flirting and take things one step too far. Some do not know how to honor the boundaries of a relationship, and some men believe that they aren’t being manly if they turn down a sexual offer from a beautiful woman.
Does this make cheating okay? Of course not! If you have an open relationship, where each of you is allowed to be with other people, that’s one thing. If you’re in an exclusive relationship and you cheat behind your loved one’s back, it is not okay. You are breaking their trust and heart in order to get your own gratification.
2) Time to Heal
If you have been cheated on, you need some time to heal. My friend Tammy was cheated on by her partner of 10 years. He explained the situation away, telling her that he still loved her but that he wasn’t getting what he needed from her.
He was getting older, he said, and sleeping with someone so much younger than him made him feel better. To this day, I am still shocked that she didn’t scream when he said that. Instead, she came to us and we helped her to get her own apartment.
Tammy had never lived on her own and was very scared at the prospect. After a few months, she learned how to live on her own. She discovered that she missed her partner, and that while she didn’t condone what he had done, she understood his point of view. The two worked through their differences and have been happy together since.
If your partner has cheated on you, give yourself time to heal. It may take months for you to fully heal from the wound that was inflicted on your heart. If living with the person is too difficult, move away for a bit. You can stay with friends or family, or you can get your own place.
3) Forgive, Don’t Forget
In order for your relationship to be saved, it is vital that you forgive both your partner and the person they slept with. If you walk around harboring those feelings, your anger and jealousy will build until the relationship rots from the inside.
Forgiving your lover and the person they cheated with is the next step in saving your relationship. This does not mean that you should forget what happened. While you shouldn’t bring it up all the time, it’s important to remember what occurred (which is generally not too difficult).
How can you forgive your lover’s other partner? First of all, you need to recognize that the person is not perfect. They have flaws, both in their personality and in their body. Your partner likely chose this person for reasons other than looks or compatibility—such as luck and circumstance, or being at the “right place at the right time.”
How can you forgive your lover? Try seeing things from their point of view, realizing that not everyone is perfect, and knowing that some people make mistakes, including your lover.
The question then becomes whether or not you should forgive your lover. If your beloved is trying to make amends, and if they are truly sorry for what they did, your relationship still has a chance to mend and heal. If they explain what occurred and are willing to pour out their heart to you, things can get better. With a little time, and a lot of understanding, a relationship can survive a cheating lover.
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Nothing is more heart-wrenching than when you find out the one you love cheated on you with another person. You feel betrayed, angry, hurt, and frustrated, along with a myriad of other feelings. Is it possible to save a relationship that has been soiled by a cheating lover?
Can the one who was cheated on get over the betrayal, and will the one who cheated do so again?
1) Why Do People Cheat?
Most people will never be able to understand why another person would cheat on the one they love. There are a number of different reasons that both men and women cheat, but one thing is for sure: they believe that by cheating and going outside of the relationship, they can make things better inside the relationship.
Some people feel that they’re not getting what they need from their partner. They feel as though they’re not special to their partner anymore and go outside of the relationship in order to feel special again.
Others simply enjoy flirting and take things one step too far. Some do not know how to honor the boundaries of a relationship, and some men believe that they aren’t being manly if they turn down a sexual offer from a beautiful woman.
Does this make cheating okay? Of course not! If you have an open relationship, where each of you is allowed to be with other people, that’s one thing. If you’re in an exclusive relationship and you cheat behind your loved one’s back, it is not okay. You are breaking their trust and heart in order to get your own gratification.
2) Time to Heal
If you have been cheated on, you need some time to heal. My friend Tammy was cheated on by her partner of 10 years. He explained the situation away, telling her that he still loved her but that he wasn’t getting what he needed from her.
He was getting older, he said, and sleeping with someone so much younger than him made him feel better. To this day, I am still shocked that she didn’t scream when he said that. Instead, she came to us and we helped her to get her own apartment.
Tammy had never lived on her own and was very scared at the prospect. After a few months, she learned how to live on her own. She discovered that she missed her partner, and that while she didn’t condone what he had done, she understood his point of view. The two worked through their differences and have been happy together since.
If your partner has cheated on you, give yourself time to heal. It may take months for you to fully heal from the wound that was inflicted on your heart. If living with the person is too difficult, move away for a bit. You can stay with friends or family, or you can get your own place.
3) Forgive, Don’t Forget
In order for your relationship to be saved, it is vital that you forgive both your partner and the person they slept with. If you walk around harboring those feelings, your anger and jealousy will build until the relationship rots from the inside.
Forgiving your lover and the person they cheated with is the next step in saving your relationship. This does not mean that you should forget what happened. While you shouldn’t bring it up all the time, it’s important to remember what occurred (which is generally not too difficult).
How can you forgive your lover’s other partner? First of all, you need to recognize that the person is not perfect. They have flaws, both in their personality and in their body. Your partner likely chose this person for reasons other than looks or compatibility—such as luck and circumstance, or being at the “right place at the right time.”
How can you forgive your lover? Try seeing things from their point of view, realizing that not everyone is perfect, and knowing that some people make mistakes, including your lover.
The question then becomes whether or not you should forgive your lover. If your beloved is trying to make amends, and if they are truly sorry for what they did, your relationship still has a chance to mend and heal. If they explain what occurred and are willing to pour out their heart to you, things can get better. With a little time, and a lot of understanding, a relationship can survive a cheating lover.
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Overcoming Your Relationship Breakup: STOP, Don't Go!
Overcoming Your Relationship Breakup: STOP, Don't Go! by Cucan Pemo
It’s over. Your loved one is saying that they’re going to leave. They’re packing up their stuff and are ready to move to a new place. How do you stop the breakup from happening?
How do you get things back to the way they were? How do you get your loved one to unpack their bags at home instead of somewhere else? There are a lot of ways to deal with such a situation—a lot of things you should, and shouldn’t, do.
1) The “Shouldn’ts”
Women tend to beg when their loved one is on the verge of leaving. I can remember, in minute detail (unfortunately), the way I begged my ex to not leave our apartment. I literally got down on my knees and grabbed him to stop him from leaving.
Did you notice I said “ex”? The first time I did this, it did work and he didn’t leave. We talked through our differences and were able to stay together for another couple of months. Then, once again, he prepared to leave. I pulled my stunt and guess what? He left anyway.
Our relationship was officially over. Your first instinct as a woman may be to beg and plead, but it just belittles you and generally doesn’t work on your loved one.
Don’t try to make your loved one jealous. Some people go out and make new “friends” in an effort to make their significant other jealous enough to not leave. Most of the time, this doesn’t work, either. Instead of making the spouse jealous, it may give them the final push they need to leave for good. A slight bit of jealousy can give a relationship a spark, but not if it’s already on a downswing.
2) The “Shoulds”
The first thing you should do is step back, breathe, and give your loved one some room. If they feel hemmed in, they’re not going to want to stay with you. Remember the old saying “You catch more flies with honey than vinegar?”
In giving them what they want, you are respecting their time and are giving yourself time to cool down, as well. In the heat of the argument, things are often said aren’t meant by either party. Time alone gives you the chance to breathe and to move onto the next step.
Step two involves figuring out what’s really going on in the relationship. Why does your loved one want to break up? Have you been fighting recently? Are all the fights about the same thing, or are they about random things?
If all the fights are about the same thing, then you already know what you have to work on. If they are about random things, there is probably some underlying argument simmering below the surface that hasn’t been discussed. Work on trying to figure out what that is.
Approach your loved one and calmly ask them what their biggest problem with the relationship is. Sometimes their answer will give you the direction that you should move in next.
3) Ch-ch-ch-changes
Everybody changes; it’s a fact of life! Who you are when you’re a senior in high school is not who you’ll be when you’re 30. Who you are now may not be who you are in a few months.
This is often why relationships start to fall apart: you feel as though you don’t know the person you’re with anymore. Make some time to get to know each other again! Spend time together doing simple things: walking, talking, sitting in the park feeding the birds.
Do things together that require that you are both alone together. You could go to a movie, but you really can’t talk well there. The best thing to do is to find something you can do that allows you to communicate with each other.
Open yourself up to your partner. Sometimes we focus so much on what we want that we neglect to think of how our partner is feeling. Often, if you try to see things through their point of view, you will find that you are much more empathetic to their feelings. You can see their side of the argument, and if you can do that, then you can fix it.
Strong relationships are fixable, and it’s always better to try to stop a breakup before it happens than to try to fix it after it’s been broken. After all, you can always fix a crack in a vase, but it’s a lot more difficult to find all of the pieces once it’s broken.
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It’s over. Your loved one is saying that they’re going to leave. They’re packing up their stuff and are ready to move to a new place. How do you stop the breakup from happening?
How do you get things back to the way they were? How do you get your loved one to unpack their bags at home instead of somewhere else? There are a lot of ways to deal with such a situation—a lot of things you should, and shouldn’t, do.
1) The “Shouldn’ts”
Women tend to beg when their loved one is on the verge of leaving. I can remember, in minute detail (unfortunately), the way I begged my ex to not leave our apartment. I literally got down on my knees and grabbed him to stop him from leaving.
Did you notice I said “ex”? The first time I did this, it did work and he didn’t leave. We talked through our differences and were able to stay together for another couple of months. Then, once again, he prepared to leave. I pulled my stunt and guess what? He left anyway.
Our relationship was officially over. Your first instinct as a woman may be to beg and plead, but it just belittles you and generally doesn’t work on your loved one.
Don’t try to make your loved one jealous. Some people go out and make new “friends” in an effort to make their significant other jealous enough to not leave. Most of the time, this doesn’t work, either. Instead of making the spouse jealous, it may give them the final push they need to leave for good. A slight bit of jealousy can give a relationship a spark, but not if it’s already on a downswing.
2) The “Shoulds”
The first thing you should do is step back, breathe, and give your loved one some room. If they feel hemmed in, they’re not going to want to stay with you. Remember the old saying “You catch more flies with honey than vinegar?”
In giving them what they want, you are respecting their time and are giving yourself time to cool down, as well. In the heat of the argument, things are often said aren’t meant by either party. Time alone gives you the chance to breathe and to move onto the next step.
Step two involves figuring out what’s really going on in the relationship. Why does your loved one want to break up? Have you been fighting recently? Are all the fights about the same thing, or are they about random things?
If all the fights are about the same thing, then you already know what you have to work on. If they are about random things, there is probably some underlying argument simmering below the surface that hasn’t been discussed. Work on trying to figure out what that is.
Approach your loved one and calmly ask them what their biggest problem with the relationship is. Sometimes their answer will give you the direction that you should move in next.
3) Ch-ch-ch-changes
Everybody changes; it’s a fact of life! Who you are when you’re a senior in high school is not who you’ll be when you’re 30. Who you are now may not be who you are in a few months.
This is often why relationships start to fall apart: you feel as though you don’t know the person you’re with anymore. Make some time to get to know each other again! Spend time together doing simple things: walking, talking, sitting in the park feeding the birds.
Do things together that require that you are both alone together. You could go to a movie, but you really can’t talk well there. The best thing to do is to find something you can do that allows you to communicate with each other.
Open yourself up to your partner. Sometimes we focus so much on what we want that we neglect to think of how our partner is feeling. Often, if you try to see things through their point of view, you will find that you are much more empathetic to their feelings. You can see their side of the argument, and if you can do that, then you can fix it.
Strong relationships are fixable, and it’s always better to try to stop a breakup before it happens than to try to fix it after it’s been broken. After all, you can always fix a crack in a vase, but it’s a lot more difficult to find all of the pieces once it’s broken.
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Save Your Marriage: What To Do When Your Bad Habits Are Ruining Your Marriage
Save Your Marriage: What To Do When Your Bad Habits Are Ruining Your Marriage by Cucan Pemo
Sometimes, bad marriages happen to good people. Okay, that's not a fair statement - just because you're having problems, that doesn't mean that your marriage is "bad."
Any number of things can contribute to relationship difficulties - boredom, time issues, the stress of raising children, and money troubles can all contribute to marital troubles.
It's common for people to feel dissatisfied after awhile. You see this person every day, brushing their teeth, clearing their throat, dropping their dirty underwear on the floor, telling the same jokes over and over and over. It's only natural to feel that the magic is gone.
There's no mystery left, and suddenly it seems like everything you do annoys your spouse! Gritting your teeth and putting up with each other just makes you feel trapped, as if you made a terrible mistake and you're doomed to spend the rest of your life with the wrong person.
But when you got married, you vowed to stick it out for better or worse, meaning that you promised to do the work necessary to make your marriage thrive. And don't kid yourself - marriage takes a lot of work. But it's worth the effort, if you're willing to do what needs to be done.
1) Those awful things you do
It's often said that you can't change other people - you can only change yourself. And that's absolutely true.
You can certainly share with your spouse what it is about them that's driving you crazy, but they have to make the commitment to make those changes themselves. In the meantime, what about you? Are you perfect? Be honest. Aren't there a few things that you do that irritate your spouse?
Maybe you don't realize that your habits are annoying. Or maybe you're so used to hearing your spouse complain that it doesn't even register anymore! Here's a short list of annoying behaviors 'take a look and see if you're guilty of any of the following:
a) Picking your nose/scratching intimate areas in public
b) Laughing at your own jokes
c) Leaving wet towels on the floor
d) Asking your spouse if you look fat
e) Criticizing your spouse in public
f) Speaking in baby talk
g) Burping and/or passing gas.
h) Using the last of an item (toilet paper, milk, bread) and not replacing it
i) Not picking up after yourself
j) Making up stories to make yourself look better
k) Putting your feet on the furniture
l) Laughing too loudly
m) Taking too long to shower or leave the house
n) Spending too much time on the computer
o) Talking about old lovers in front of your spouse
p) Being bossy or nagging when you could be kind, instead
q) Never volunteering to do chores around the house
2) Make a change for the better
First of all, you have to understand that everyone does things that irritate their spouse. And that you can change those behaviors if you want to - saying that an old dog can't learn new tricks or "I'm just set in my ways" is a cop-out, and simply a justification so that you can keep on doing those irritating things. So knock off the excuses, admit that you need to make some improvements, and make the choice to fix what's wrong.
You have to be willing to acknowledge that your behavior is hurting your marriage. Talk to your spouse about how your irritating habits - and your refusal to change them - has made your spouse feel. Odds are good that they'll tell you that it makes them feel like to you don't care about their feelings.
So assure them that you do, indeed, care, and get your spouse to help you brainstorm ways to change your annoying behaviors. In many cases, you can find a middle ground where the two of can compromise - for example, I found that my partner hated it when I left dirty laundry on the floor, but didn't mind so much that I always forgot to replace the toilet paper roll. So I negotiated a sort of amnesty where the toilet paper was concerned while promising to put my dirty clothes in the hamper. Remember, marriage is about compromise!
Let your mate know that you need positive reinforcement for making changes. An occasional "I'm proud of you" or "thanks for doing that" will go a long way towards encouraging you to keep up with the new behavior. Many people also find that replacing a bad habit with a good one is easier than just stopping cold turkey, so try and find something pleasant to replace the old behavior.
And don't be so hard on yourself if you slip up occasionally. We're all flawed, and we all make mistakes. If your marriage is suffering because of your bad habits, just the fact that you're willing to admit your flaws and work to fix them will make a huge difference - because it shows how much you care!==================Save you Marriage and Relationship with my Relationship Restoration Strategies! Don't let your love Rivals ace you out of this chance to bring back the love of your life! Join the real mastermind group that enjoys stunning synergy! My Home Study Course has caused multiple "a-HA!" realizations for my readers each time they open up and read my book. TODAY maybe that day you look back on and say "That's when everything changed for me!" However, NOTHING will happen until you get the details. So if you desire to save your marriage and save your relationship, get over here right now and check out this site!==> http://item0612.cpemo.hop.clickbank.net/
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Sometimes, bad marriages happen to good people. Okay, that's not a fair statement - just because you're having problems, that doesn't mean that your marriage is "bad."
Any number of things can contribute to relationship difficulties - boredom, time issues, the stress of raising children, and money troubles can all contribute to marital troubles.
It's common for people to feel dissatisfied after awhile. You see this person every day, brushing their teeth, clearing their throat, dropping their dirty underwear on the floor, telling the same jokes over and over and over. It's only natural to feel that the magic is gone.
There's no mystery left, and suddenly it seems like everything you do annoys your spouse! Gritting your teeth and putting up with each other just makes you feel trapped, as if you made a terrible mistake and you're doomed to spend the rest of your life with the wrong person.
But when you got married, you vowed to stick it out for better or worse, meaning that you promised to do the work necessary to make your marriage thrive. And don't kid yourself - marriage takes a lot of work. But it's worth the effort, if you're willing to do what needs to be done.
1) Those awful things you do
It's often said that you can't change other people - you can only change yourself. And that's absolutely true.
You can certainly share with your spouse what it is about them that's driving you crazy, but they have to make the commitment to make those changes themselves. In the meantime, what about you? Are you perfect? Be honest. Aren't there a few things that you do that irritate your spouse?
Maybe you don't realize that your habits are annoying. Or maybe you're so used to hearing your spouse complain that it doesn't even register anymore! Here's a short list of annoying behaviors 'take a look and see if you're guilty of any of the following:
a) Picking your nose/scratching intimate areas in public
b) Laughing at your own jokes
c) Leaving wet towels on the floor
d) Asking your spouse if you look fat
e) Criticizing your spouse in public
f) Speaking in baby talk
g) Burping and/or passing gas.
h) Using the last of an item (toilet paper, milk, bread) and not replacing it
i) Not picking up after yourself
j) Making up stories to make yourself look better
k) Putting your feet on the furniture
l) Laughing too loudly
m) Taking too long to shower or leave the house
n) Spending too much time on the computer
o) Talking about old lovers in front of your spouse
p) Being bossy or nagging when you could be kind, instead
q) Never volunteering to do chores around the house
2) Make a change for the better
First of all, you have to understand that everyone does things that irritate their spouse. And that you can change those behaviors if you want to - saying that an old dog can't learn new tricks or "I'm just set in my ways" is a cop-out, and simply a justification so that you can keep on doing those irritating things. So knock off the excuses, admit that you need to make some improvements, and make the choice to fix what's wrong.
You have to be willing to acknowledge that your behavior is hurting your marriage. Talk to your spouse about how your irritating habits - and your refusal to change them - has made your spouse feel. Odds are good that they'll tell you that it makes them feel like to you don't care about their feelings.
So assure them that you do, indeed, care, and get your spouse to help you brainstorm ways to change your annoying behaviors. In many cases, you can find a middle ground where the two of can compromise - for example, I found that my partner hated it when I left dirty laundry on the floor, but didn't mind so much that I always forgot to replace the toilet paper roll. So I negotiated a sort of amnesty where the toilet paper was concerned while promising to put my dirty clothes in the hamper. Remember, marriage is about compromise!
Let your mate know that you need positive reinforcement for making changes. An occasional "I'm proud of you" or "thanks for doing that" will go a long way towards encouraging you to keep up with the new behavior. Many people also find that replacing a bad habit with a good one is easier than just stopping cold turkey, so try and find something pleasant to replace the old behavior.
And don't be so hard on yourself if you slip up occasionally. We're all flawed, and we all make mistakes. If your marriage is suffering because of your bad habits, just the fact that you're willing to admit your flaws and work to fix them will make a huge difference - because it shows how much you care!==================Save you Marriage and Relationship with my Relationship Restoration Strategies! Don't let your love Rivals ace you out of this chance to bring back the love of your life! Join the real mastermind group that enjoys stunning synergy! My Home Study Course has caused multiple "a-HA!" realizations for my readers each time they open up and read my book. TODAY maybe that day you look back on and say "That's when everything changed for me!" However, NOTHING will happen until you get the details. So if you desire to save your marriage and save your relationship, get over here right now and check out this site!==> http://item0612.cpemo.hop.clickbank.net/
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When You Are Not the First: How to Love a Woman Who Has Been Engaged
When You Are Not the First: How to Love a Woman Who Has Been Engaged by Cucan Pemo
It’s a fact of life – you’re not the first man that your lady friend has been involved with. In many cases, she may have even considered marriage with a past beau, taken his engagement ring and headed for the altar before realizing that he wasn’t The One.
If so, you may be feeling a little insecure, wondering if that man was truly the love of her life and if she’s really ready to make a commitment to you now.
The truth is, you stand a much better chance of having a happy relationship with a woman who’s been serious with someone else before you. There are things about being in a relationship that people can only know from experience – both good and bad. How to compromise, for example, and how much actual work has to go into a long-term relationship to make it thrive
If she’s headed toward marriage once but changed her mind, she probably had a very good reason. So ask her why it didn’t work out – rather than sulk and feel jealous, use this as an opportunity to find out what she learned from the experience.
She may have felt that her previous fiancé was too clingy, or maybe he was bad with money. Her reasons for not marrying someone else will reveal not only what she wants from a marriage, but what she doesn’t want from you – things she may be nervous about saying outright, for fear of hurting your feelings.
If the broken engagement wasn’t her idea, she’ll very likely be skittish about you, and about how serious you are regarding the relationship. “Once bitten, twice shy” is a fact of life, and she might be harboring fears that you’ll leave her at some point, too.
She may have self-esteem issues related to the event, and feel that’s she’s not good looking enough or lovable enough to earn a lifetime commitment. If this is the case, you’ll need to be extremely supportive, loving, affectionate and complimentary.
Whether she was the one who terminated her previous engagement or not, she’s going to want to be very sure that you’re someone she wants to spend the rest of her life with before she commits. So you’ll want to take a good, long look at yourself and your behavior to ensure that you’re trustworthy. Part of that means keeping your word – showing up on time for dates, telling her the truth about who you see and what you do when you’re not with her, and staying faithful during the length of your relationship.
Women give honesty a high priority, especially when considering a mate. Be someone she knows she can trust – and that means really being trustworthy, not just putting on a convincing act – and you’re halfway home.
But being trustworthy is also about her allowing herself to entrust you with her emotions. Don’t play jealousy games, talking about other women that you find attractive just to feel more “loved” when she gets jealous.
Listen to what she tells you, really listen, and make sure she knows you care about what she has to say. Examine the way you talk to her, and note if you ever talk down to her as if she’s less intelligent than you are, or if you criticize appearance or her behavior all the time.
If so, she’s not going to feel safe with you – add that to the feelings she may still harbor over her failed engagement, and you’re not making yourself a very appealing prospect. On the plus side, a woman who has been serious enough about a man to consider marriage has experience in developing a long-term relationship. What you’ll gain from this is a partner who knows what she wants, and probably has no problem expressing it.
If she deems you worthy of her trust, she’ll give you her entire heart and be a faithful, loving spouse if you two tie the knot.
The key, as mentioned above, is to talk about what went wrong the first time – whether it was money problems, disagreements over whether to have children, family issues, a substance abuse problem or simply a realization that they weren’t right for each other, understanding the reason for the break-up will be educational, allowing you to judge whether you and she are a better fit, and what she expects from a serious relationship.
She’ll appreciate the fact that you want to understand her better, and you’ll gain from the insight into her past.
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It’s a fact of life – you’re not the first man that your lady friend has been involved with. In many cases, she may have even considered marriage with a past beau, taken his engagement ring and headed for the altar before realizing that he wasn’t The One.
If so, you may be feeling a little insecure, wondering if that man was truly the love of her life and if she’s really ready to make a commitment to you now.
The truth is, you stand a much better chance of having a happy relationship with a woman who’s been serious with someone else before you. There are things about being in a relationship that people can only know from experience – both good and bad. How to compromise, for example, and how much actual work has to go into a long-term relationship to make it thrive
If she’s headed toward marriage once but changed her mind, she probably had a very good reason. So ask her why it didn’t work out – rather than sulk and feel jealous, use this as an opportunity to find out what she learned from the experience.
She may have felt that her previous fiancé was too clingy, or maybe he was bad with money. Her reasons for not marrying someone else will reveal not only what she wants from a marriage, but what she doesn’t want from you – things she may be nervous about saying outright, for fear of hurting your feelings.
If the broken engagement wasn’t her idea, she’ll very likely be skittish about you, and about how serious you are regarding the relationship. “Once bitten, twice shy” is a fact of life, and she might be harboring fears that you’ll leave her at some point, too.
She may have self-esteem issues related to the event, and feel that’s she’s not good looking enough or lovable enough to earn a lifetime commitment. If this is the case, you’ll need to be extremely supportive, loving, affectionate and complimentary.
Whether she was the one who terminated her previous engagement or not, she’s going to want to be very sure that you’re someone she wants to spend the rest of her life with before she commits. So you’ll want to take a good, long look at yourself and your behavior to ensure that you’re trustworthy. Part of that means keeping your word – showing up on time for dates, telling her the truth about who you see and what you do when you’re not with her, and staying faithful during the length of your relationship.
Women give honesty a high priority, especially when considering a mate. Be someone she knows she can trust – and that means really being trustworthy, not just putting on a convincing act – and you’re halfway home.
But being trustworthy is also about her allowing herself to entrust you with her emotions. Don’t play jealousy games, talking about other women that you find attractive just to feel more “loved” when she gets jealous.
Listen to what she tells you, really listen, and make sure she knows you care about what she has to say. Examine the way you talk to her, and note if you ever talk down to her as if she’s less intelligent than you are, or if you criticize appearance or her behavior all the time.
If so, she’s not going to feel safe with you – add that to the feelings she may still harbor over her failed engagement, and you’re not making yourself a very appealing prospect. On the plus side, a woman who has been serious enough about a man to consider marriage has experience in developing a long-term relationship. What you’ll gain from this is a partner who knows what she wants, and probably has no problem expressing it.
If she deems you worthy of her trust, she’ll give you her entire heart and be a faithful, loving spouse if you two tie the knot.
The key, as mentioned above, is to talk about what went wrong the first time – whether it was money problems, disagreements over whether to have children, family issues, a substance abuse problem or simply a realization that they weren’t right for each other, understanding the reason for the break-up will be educational, allowing you to judge whether you and she are a better fit, and what she expects from a serious relationship.
She’ll appreciate the fact that you want to understand her better, and you’ll gain from the insight into her past.
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Romantic Love and Those Three Little Words - How To Tell Him You Love Him
Romantic Love and Those Three Little Words - How To Tell Him You Love Him by Cucan Pemo
So you’ve met the man of your dreams. Your heart sings, your pulse races, you walk around all moony-eyed and have trouble thinking about anything but him. You want to tell him that you love him, and that you think that he’s The One, but you don’t want to seem clingy – or worse, scare him off.
We’ve all heard horror stories about one partner telling the other that they love them and then getting the “thanks, but no thanks” response.
Maybe you’ve experienced it yourself, adding to your fears. So how do you tell him that you love him without coming off like a creepy stalker?
1) Choose the right place and the right time.
Think hard about when and where you want to tell him. If you’re worried that he won’t respond with enthusiasm, it helps to be prepared. Maybe you’d like to tell him on the anniversary of when you met, or at the place you first kissed, or over dinner at your favorite restaurant. Set the stage for romance and he’ll respond more positively.
2) Make it romantic.
Candlelight and music work on men just as well as they work on women. Wear something that you know he likes to see you in, ply him with his favorite meal, and get him in a romantic mood.
3) Make sure you can back it up.
Before you blurt out “I love you,” tell him what you appreciate about him. Compliment him and tell him what it is about him that you really like. Tell him how wonderful he makes you feel when you’re together and why you value your relationship. Be sincere, and be specific. Let him know that you value him for the many things that make him unique and special.
4) Consider the type of person he is.
If he’s a fun-loving, casual type, setting up a full-scale romantic assault may actually make him feel more nervous than passionate. He might respond better if you slip “I love you” into a conversation over a picnic lunch, or while laughing at one of your favorite movies.
By the time you get to expressing your love, you should know him pretty well – so pick a time and a place that will be most comfortable for him.
5) Share it, don’t demand it.
You want to tell him how you feel, not blackmail him into saying it back. He may not be ready to say it yet, and if he feels pressured he’ll resent you for it. And no matter what you do, never blurt it out as part of an argument. Screeching, “But I love you!” isn’t romantic, it’s disturbing and selfish.
6) Take the coward’s way out.
If you can’t bring yourself to flat-out say “I love you,” try a less pressure-filled way of saying the same thing. “I love having your arms around me,” “I love how you look in that shirt” and “I really love the way your eyes twinkle when you smile” are smaller declarations and a good way to gauge his feelings.
7) Don’t say it while under the influence.
A glass of wine may give you the courage to say those three little words, but several glasses of wine will just make you sloppy and silly. Besides, think of the message you’re sending him if it looks like you had to get drunk to tell him you love him! Do it while sober, so both of you know that you mean exactly what you say.
8) Be prepared for the worst.
No matter how much you fantasize about him saying “I love you” back, Don’t place all your hopes on it. He may not be ready. Worse, he may not feel the same way about you. Saying “I love you” should be a gift from you to him, not a demand to reciprocate – and if you pin all your hopes on him responding in exactly the way you’ve imagined, you may very well be disappointed.
Have a back-up plan in place in case he doesn’t return your feelings – know in advance that you may end up crying into your pillow or sitting up late with a girlfriend grousing about your broken heart. If he says “I love you back,” that’s great. But if he doesn’t, it’ll go better fo you if you’ve already prepared yourself for that possibility.
Above all, remember that saying “I love you” doesn’t really change anything. While it may be the ending to every romantic movie, exchanging those words doesn’t mean happily ever after. It just means that you’re moving into a slightly different phase of your relationship – there’s still a lot to share with each other, and who knows what joys and challenges lie ahead?
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So you’ve met the man of your dreams. Your heart sings, your pulse races, you walk around all moony-eyed and have trouble thinking about anything but him. You want to tell him that you love him, and that you think that he’s The One, but you don’t want to seem clingy – or worse, scare him off.
We’ve all heard horror stories about one partner telling the other that they love them and then getting the “thanks, but no thanks” response.
Maybe you’ve experienced it yourself, adding to your fears. So how do you tell him that you love him without coming off like a creepy stalker?
1) Choose the right place and the right time.
Think hard about when and where you want to tell him. If you’re worried that he won’t respond with enthusiasm, it helps to be prepared. Maybe you’d like to tell him on the anniversary of when you met, or at the place you first kissed, or over dinner at your favorite restaurant. Set the stage for romance and he’ll respond more positively.
2) Make it romantic.
Candlelight and music work on men just as well as they work on women. Wear something that you know he likes to see you in, ply him with his favorite meal, and get him in a romantic mood.
3) Make sure you can back it up.
Before you blurt out “I love you,” tell him what you appreciate about him. Compliment him and tell him what it is about him that you really like. Tell him how wonderful he makes you feel when you’re together and why you value your relationship. Be sincere, and be specific. Let him know that you value him for the many things that make him unique and special.
4) Consider the type of person he is.
If he’s a fun-loving, casual type, setting up a full-scale romantic assault may actually make him feel more nervous than passionate. He might respond better if you slip “I love you” into a conversation over a picnic lunch, or while laughing at one of your favorite movies.
By the time you get to expressing your love, you should know him pretty well – so pick a time and a place that will be most comfortable for him.
5) Share it, don’t demand it.
You want to tell him how you feel, not blackmail him into saying it back. He may not be ready to say it yet, and if he feels pressured he’ll resent you for it. And no matter what you do, never blurt it out as part of an argument. Screeching, “But I love you!” isn’t romantic, it’s disturbing and selfish.
6) Take the coward’s way out.
If you can’t bring yourself to flat-out say “I love you,” try a less pressure-filled way of saying the same thing. “I love having your arms around me,” “I love how you look in that shirt” and “I really love the way your eyes twinkle when you smile” are smaller declarations and a good way to gauge his feelings.
7) Don’t say it while under the influence.
A glass of wine may give you the courage to say those three little words, but several glasses of wine will just make you sloppy and silly. Besides, think of the message you’re sending him if it looks like you had to get drunk to tell him you love him! Do it while sober, so both of you know that you mean exactly what you say.
8) Be prepared for the worst.
No matter how much you fantasize about him saying “I love you” back, Don’t place all your hopes on it. He may not be ready. Worse, he may not feel the same way about you. Saying “I love you” should be a gift from you to him, not a demand to reciprocate – and if you pin all your hopes on him responding in exactly the way you’ve imagined, you may very well be disappointed.
Have a back-up plan in place in case he doesn’t return your feelings – know in advance that you may end up crying into your pillow or sitting up late with a girlfriend grousing about your broken heart. If he says “I love you back,” that’s great. But if he doesn’t, it’ll go better fo you if you’ve already prepared yourself for that possibility.
Above all, remember that saying “I love you” doesn’t really change anything. While it may be the ending to every romantic movie, exchanging those words doesn’t mean happily ever after. It just means that you’re moving into a slightly different phase of your relationship – there’s still a lot to share with each other, and who knows what joys and challenges lie ahead?
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7 Effective Ways To Help A Wife Who Has Debt Problems
7 Effective Ways To Help A Wife Who Has Debt Problems by Cucan Pemo
It all looked so easy in the situation comedies we grew up watching, whether it was “Leave it to Beaver,” “The Brady Bunch” or “Family Ties.” Women took care of the family and men took care of the money. Maybe, now and then, Mom would save up some money from the grocery allowance to buy herself a new hat, but the bills, the credit cards, the mortgage and everything else were Dad’s dominion.
But it’s a new world we live in, with women working full-time and taking care of their families, too, getting their own credit cards and paying their own way. But not everyone is good with money – and as more women take on credit card debt they can’t manage, more of them are also having to visit debt counselors and file for bankruptcy.
If you’ve married a woman with mounting debt, you may be torn as to what to do about it. On the one hand, you don’t want to put your foot down and act like you’re the big man in charge. But, on the other hand, debt affects you, your credit rating, and your family’s future. What’s the best way to handle a spouse with debt problems?
1) Look for problems early, and nip them in the bud.
Maybe you didn;t notice that she had money problems before you were married, but you should certainly be able to spot them once you’re living together. Spending might be a problem – does she have a lot of credit cards, and does she do a lot of shopping with them? This is a major red flag. Other things that can lead to financial disaster are medical bills or car repairs, or if she’s simply not bringing enough money into the relationship.
2) Don’t give in to societal pressure.
Many women are concerned with “keeping up with the Joneses” – having a gorgeous house, new furniture, a late-model car and all the other accouterments of success. Many couples live beyond their means because they want to give the impression of success, but it’s a sure-fire way to end up in debt.
3) Don’t be afraid to talk about money.
Many couples pool their money into one checking account, co-sign each other’s credit card applications and put their spouse’s name on the mortgage without ever bothering to talk about what it all means. If she knows that the debt problems are her fault, she may be hesitant to discuss it – and you don’t want to make her feel bad. But if there are problems, you both need to deal with them head-on, as a team.
4) If necessary, talk to a debt counselor.
Credit counselors offer low-cost, non-judgmental advice, and you can even talk to them over the phone if you feel embarrasses about meeting them face-to-face. Many credit counseling agencies offering a sliding fee scale, and charge just $5 or $10 a month for their service.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, this may be your best solution – especially if money troubles are causing you and your wife to argue incessantly over finances. Credit counselors see people in bad financial straits all the times, and their job is to help you work out your problems. You have nothing to lose by talking to a counselor, and everything to gain.
5) Make her take responsibility for her spending.
Sit down together with a pad of paper and a pencil, and look at where your money goes each month. Start with your income, then subtract what you spend on utilities, groceries, insurance, rent, gas for your car and other expenses. She may not actually know how little money is left over after all the essentials are taken care of.
Try a software program like Quicken and have her track her money by logging every expense, from her afternoon latte to those new shoes she just “had” to have. When she sees the evidence of her debt in black and white, she won’t be able to pretend that it’s not a problem.
6) Set goals together to pay down debt.
If she’s paying the minimum on her credit cards each month, she’s accumulating more debt rather than decreasing it because of the hefty interest. Make it a goal to pay more than the minimum and get out from under at least one credit card, and set a realistic goal as yo when you’ll do it.
Then cut up all of the store credit cards – if she doesn’t have the cash, then she can’t buy it. If she’s addicted to shopping, she’ll find this difficult, but it’s the only way to get out of debt.
7) Think twice before filing for bankruptcy.
It may sound like an appealing way out of debt – file for bankruptcy and have your debts erased. But in many cases you’ll still have to pay off the debts, usually in three to five years.
And a bankruptcy filing will remain on your credit report for up to 10 years, even if you’ve cleared all of your debt well before then, and can affect your ability to get jobs, insurance or future loans. It should only be considered a last resort.
The best way to deal with your wife’s debt is to talk about it and make a plan for
the future. Dealing with money problems is never easy, but marriage is about teamwork – which means both of you have to take responsibility for your finances.
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It all looked so easy in the situation comedies we grew up watching, whether it was “Leave it to Beaver,” “The Brady Bunch” or “Family Ties.” Women took care of the family and men took care of the money. Maybe, now and then, Mom would save up some money from the grocery allowance to buy herself a new hat, but the bills, the credit cards, the mortgage and everything else were Dad’s dominion.
But it’s a new world we live in, with women working full-time and taking care of their families, too, getting their own credit cards and paying their own way. But not everyone is good with money – and as more women take on credit card debt they can’t manage, more of them are also having to visit debt counselors and file for bankruptcy.
If you’ve married a woman with mounting debt, you may be torn as to what to do about it. On the one hand, you don’t want to put your foot down and act like you’re the big man in charge. But, on the other hand, debt affects you, your credit rating, and your family’s future. What’s the best way to handle a spouse with debt problems?
1) Look for problems early, and nip them in the bud.
Maybe you didn;t notice that she had money problems before you were married, but you should certainly be able to spot them once you’re living together. Spending might be a problem – does she have a lot of credit cards, and does she do a lot of shopping with them? This is a major red flag. Other things that can lead to financial disaster are medical bills or car repairs, or if she’s simply not bringing enough money into the relationship.
2) Don’t give in to societal pressure.
Many women are concerned with “keeping up with the Joneses” – having a gorgeous house, new furniture, a late-model car and all the other accouterments of success. Many couples live beyond their means because they want to give the impression of success, but it’s a sure-fire way to end up in debt.
3) Don’t be afraid to talk about money.
Many couples pool their money into one checking account, co-sign each other’s credit card applications and put their spouse’s name on the mortgage without ever bothering to talk about what it all means. If she knows that the debt problems are her fault, she may be hesitant to discuss it – and you don’t want to make her feel bad. But if there are problems, you both need to deal with them head-on, as a team.
4) If necessary, talk to a debt counselor.
Credit counselors offer low-cost, non-judgmental advice, and you can even talk to them over the phone if you feel embarrasses about meeting them face-to-face. Many credit counseling agencies offering a sliding fee scale, and charge just $5 or $10 a month for their service.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, this may be your best solution – especially if money troubles are causing you and your wife to argue incessantly over finances. Credit counselors see people in bad financial straits all the times, and their job is to help you work out your problems. You have nothing to lose by talking to a counselor, and everything to gain.
5) Make her take responsibility for her spending.
Sit down together with a pad of paper and a pencil, and look at where your money goes each month. Start with your income, then subtract what you spend on utilities, groceries, insurance, rent, gas for your car and other expenses. She may not actually know how little money is left over after all the essentials are taken care of.
Try a software program like Quicken and have her track her money by logging every expense, from her afternoon latte to those new shoes she just “had” to have. When she sees the evidence of her debt in black and white, she won’t be able to pretend that it’s not a problem.
6) Set goals together to pay down debt.
If she’s paying the minimum on her credit cards each month, she’s accumulating more debt rather than decreasing it because of the hefty interest. Make it a goal to pay more than the minimum and get out from under at least one credit card, and set a realistic goal as yo when you’ll do it.
Then cut up all of the store credit cards – if she doesn’t have the cash, then she can’t buy it. If she’s addicted to shopping, she’ll find this difficult, but it’s the only way to get out of debt.
7) Think twice before filing for bankruptcy.
It may sound like an appealing way out of debt – file for bankruptcy and have your debts erased. But in many cases you’ll still have to pay off the debts, usually in three to five years.
And a bankruptcy filing will remain on your credit report for up to 10 years, even if you’ve cleared all of your debt well before then, and can affect your ability to get jobs, insurance or future loans. It should only be considered a last resort.
The best way to deal with your wife’s debt is to talk about it and make a plan for
the future. Dealing with money problems is never easy, but marriage is about teamwork – which means both of you have to take responsibility for your finances.
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Relationship Advice for Guys: How to Deal with Commitment Issues with Your Girlfriend!
Relationship Advice for Guys: How to Deal with Commitment Issues with Your Girlfriend!By Cucan Pemo
A guy with commitment issues has become the punch line for too many jokes these days, in my opinion. First of all, women have commitment issues too.
For example, one woman I know thought that her boyfriend was moving too fast, so she got out of the relationship as soon as he started talking about marriage. Not all women want to get married, after all – at least, not right now. She just didn't think they knew each other well enough to start living with each other all the time – completely reasonable.
But since this topic comes up constantly, maybe it's time to have a chat about how to make this part of your next relationship less of a pain. You need to ask yourself some questions and take action based on the answers you find.
1) What's Your Issue?
It all starts with being honest with yourself. Do you have issues with commitment? You might, that's always possible. Or maybe you simply have an idea in your head about when you want to settle down. There's nothing wrong with that either.
But sometimes a woman might be reacting to the fact that you're also not 100% ready for commitment. And to save herself, she's just saying that she's not ready for commitment. It's a thought to consider.
You need to start looking at yourself to see whether or not you have un-admitted commitment issues. If you do, you need to question why you don't want to commit to anyone and what it might take for you to feel ready.
Of course, she might never want to be committed to anyone – many celebrities have done this quite happily and certainly others just like you are out there too.
2) What Do You Really Want?
The truth about commitment is that it's a sticky subject for anyone – no matter how close you are. When you're in the initial stages of the relationship, you want to make sure that you're both on the same page, so start talking.
This isn't about setting down ultimatums or anything, but have an open and honest discussion about what you both envision. This way, she's going to know what you're expecting and she can be honest about what she is and is not expecting.
On the other hand, this conversation can get tricky. If she says that she doesn't want to commit, you need to realize that this may be her answer for now or it might be her answer forever. In any case, you need to be ready to change your ideas for your relationship – or you need to walk away.
3) Can You Change Her Mind?
This is the question I most often hear from guys because they believe that they can and should be able to fix problems. So, if she doesn't want to commit, maybe it's just a matter of talking her into it. But this is the last thing you want to do. Many women (myself included) are incredibly stubborn about things that we think and once we have an idea in our heads, we don't want to give it up easily – especially when someone else wants to tell us we should.
Instead, women need to have a little but of a softer touch. Let her have her space to sort things out – that time away from you might be all the perspective she needs to get things sorted out in her mind. Slow things down in order for her to get comfortable with your relationship as it is. Once she's comfortable, suggest another step up in the relationship (exchanging keys, for example). This way, you will be able to slowly progress, acclimate, and then move up the commitment ladder until you're both happy.
4) Should I Even Stay With Her?
If you're ready for commitment and she isn't, should you say with her? That's really the end point of this discussion. Working through commitment issues takes time and while many people can and do change, there are no guarantees of when (or if) this change will happen.
If you want to settle down and start being in a committed relationship, and your current girlfriend isn't ready, you need to consider walking away. Sometimes realizing that you are serious about your commitment is just what she needs to change her mind too – but don't use this as a false promise either.
All of these tips have worked with varying degrees of success. What you need to realize too that since every relationship is different, you will encounter different speed bumps along the way. This is okay. And eventually, you will probably find one woman with whom you WANT to completely commit. Until then, there's no need to beat yourself up over the fact that you're not settled down yet.
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A guy with commitment issues has become the punch line for too many jokes these days, in my opinion. First of all, women have commitment issues too.
For example, one woman I know thought that her boyfriend was moving too fast, so she got out of the relationship as soon as he started talking about marriage. Not all women want to get married, after all – at least, not right now. She just didn't think they knew each other well enough to start living with each other all the time – completely reasonable.
But since this topic comes up constantly, maybe it's time to have a chat about how to make this part of your next relationship less of a pain. You need to ask yourself some questions and take action based on the answers you find.
1) What's Your Issue?
It all starts with being honest with yourself. Do you have issues with commitment? You might, that's always possible. Or maybe you simply have an idea in your head about when you want to settle down. There's nothing wrong with that either.
But sometimes a woman might be reacting to the fact that you're also not 100% ready for commitment. And to save herself, she's just saying that she's not ready for commitment. It's a thought to consider.
You need to start looking at yourself to see whether or not you have un-admitted commitment issues. If you do, you need to question why you don't want to commit to anyone and what it might take for you to feel ready.
Of course, she might never want to be committed to anyone – many celebrities have done this quite happily and certainly others just like you are out there too.
2) What Do You Really Want?
The truth about commitment is that it's a sticky subject for anyone – no matter how close you are. When you're in the initial stages of the relationship, you want to make sure that you're both on the same page, so start talking.
This isn't about setting down ultimatums or anything, but have an open and honest discussion about what you both envision. This way, she's going to know what you're expecting and she can be honest about what she is and is not expecting.
On the other hand, this conversation can get tricky. If she says that she doesn't want to commit, you need to realize that this may be her answer for now or it might be her answer forever. In any case, you need to be ready to change your ideas for your relationship – or you need to walk away.
3) Can You Change Her Mind?
This is the question I most often hear from guys because they believe that they can and should be able to fix problems. So, if she doesn't want to commit, maybe it's just a matter of talking her into it. But this is the last thing you want to do. Many women (myself included) are incredibly stubborn about things that we think and once we have an idea in our heads, we don't want to give it up easily – especially when someone else wants to tell us we should.
Instead, women need to have a little but of a softer touch. Let her have her space to sort things out – that time away from you might be all the perspective she needs to get things sorted out in her mind. Slow things down in order for her to get comfortable with your relationship as it is. Once she's comfortable, suggest another step up in the relationship (exchanging keys, for example). This way, you will be able to slowly progress, acclimate, and then move up the commitment ladder until you're both happy.
4) Should I Even Stay With Her?
If you're ready for commitment and she isn't, should you say with her? That's really the end point of this discussion. Working through commitment issues takes time and while many people can and do change, there are no guarantees of when (or if) this change will happen.
If you want to settle down and start being in a committed relationship, and your current girlfriend isn't ready, you need to consider walking away. Sometimes realizing that you are serious about your commitment is just what she needs to change her mind too – but don't use this as a false promise either.
All of these tips have worked with varying degrees of success. What you need to realize too that since every relationship is different, you will encounter different speed bumps along the way. This is okay. And eventually, you will probably find one woman with whom you WANT to completely commit. Until then, there's no need to beat yourself up over the fact that you're not settled down yet.
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7 Surefire Ways to Know If Your Boyfriend Feels the Same Way About You!
7 Surefire Ways to Know If Your Boyfriend Feels the Same Way About You!by Cucan Pemo
The first time I met my boyfriend, I knew that he was the one – at least, for the moment, he was. But the first time I realized that I loved him, I almost blurted it out without thinking it through. Catching myself, I realized that I'd better be certain he felt the same way because this was sort of a rebound relationship and he was such a good friend that I didn't want to ruin a friendship at the same time.
Here are the seven ways I knew that my then boyfriend felt the same way about me.
1) He Makes Plans Ahead of Time
A man who plans ahead is something who wants to be with you because he enjoys being with you. He obviously cares about you and wants to make you a priority in his life. Instead of squeezing you into his life, he wants to make sure that the future is filled with fun times with you. Of course, last minute plans are fun too, but a man who plans ahead? That's a guy who's into you.
2) He Isn't Afraid to Introduce You to Others
When you're walking at the mall and you run into a few of his friends, if he introduces you to them, you can be certain that he has already talked about you with them – favorably. This is a man who is committed to the relationship and happy enough to want to share it with the world.
3) He Asks Personal Questions
If you are sitting around, he is going to ask you about your family, your day at work, etc. He wants to know more about you and he isn't afraid to ask because you're someone he cares about and he wants to learn as much as he can about you.
Of course, these questions will probably be limited to family, interests, and hobbies, but when he starts asking about your dreams, you know he's hooked.
4) He Doesn't Shy Away From Hard Conversations
If you come home from work and you've had a rough day, you're probably going to vent these frustrations to anyone who listens.
I know that when I have a bad day, all I want is for someone to listen to me and to tell me that I have every right to be upset. If you're with a man who lets you vent and doesn't run away from the conversation, you have someone who's really special and who really cares.
5) He Remembers Special Days
One time, a man I was seeing remembered the first time he and I had ever met each other – even though I didn't remember.
He surprised me with a rose at my workplace. Before that, I had thought that he really didn't care about me, but once I realized that he had been keeping 'score' of our relationship, I realized that he was deeply interested in being a good man for me and interested in caring about my happiness.
6) He Looks You in the Eye
A man who can and does look you in the eye is a man with nothing to hide. When you are walking to your man about personal feelings, and he looks directly at you, you know that not only is he listening to the conversation, but he's also making sure that you know he's listening. This is a man who's honest and ready to be a part of the relationship.
7) He Likes to Touch You
Men like to express how they feel by touch at times – and this means outside of the bedroom too. When your man holds onto you and touches your shoulders, he is showing that he is proud to be with you and that he really cares about making you feel happy and safe.
I was once with a guy who I though I really liked, but I was hesitant about telling him because it seemed like something was 'off.' He was nice enough and he met my family, who adored him. But he never looked me in the eye and this made me worried. So, instead of sharing with him how I thought I felt, I just let the relationship ride out to see if he would say something first. He did. He was cheating on me with my best friend.
A man who can look you in the eye is someone you can trust not only with your words, but also with your heart. While not every man will fall into all of these seven ways, he should be fitting into most of them.===========================Is your spouse or lover abroad and they are telling you that they havelost that attraction for you?? You CAN still save your relationship (andMarriage) using my proven methods and strategies which have beenused successfully by people from ALL over the world! Learn howyou can get your Ex back and save your own Relationship TODAY!==> http://item0612.cpemo.hop.clickbank.net/
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The first time I met my boyfriend, I knew that he was the one – at least, for the moment, he was. But the first time I realized that I loved him, I almost blurted it out without thinking it through. Catching myself, I realized that I'd better be certain he felt the same way because this was sort of a rebound relationship and he was such a good friend that I didn't want to ruin a friendship at the same time.
Here are the seven ways I knew that my then boyfriend felt the same way about me.
1) He Makes Plans Ahead of Time
A man who plans ahead is something who wants to be with you because he enjoys being with you. He obviously cares about you and wants to make you a priority in his life. Instead of squeezing you into his life, he wants to make sure that the future is filled with fun times with you. Of course, last minute plans are fun too, but a man who plans ahead? That's a guy who's into you.
2) He Isn't Afraid to Introduce You to Others
When you're walking at the mall and you run into a few of his friends, if he introduces you to them, you can be certain that he has already talked about you with them – favorably. This is a man who is committed to the relationship and happy enough to want to share it with the world.
3) He Asks Personal Questions
If you are sitting around, he is going to ask you about your family, your day at work, etc. He wants to know more about you and he isn't afraid to ask because you're someone he cares about and he wants to learn as much as he can about you.
Of course, these questions will probably be limited to family, interests, and hobbies, but when he starts asking about your dreams, you know he's hooked.
4) He Doesn't Shy Away From Hard Conversations
If you come home from work and you've had a rough day, you're probably going to vent these frustrations to anyone who listens.
I know that when I have a bad day, all I want is for someone to listen to me and to tell me that I have every right to be upset. If you're with a man who lets you vent and doesn't run away from the conversation, you have someone who's really special and who really cares.
5) He Remembers Special Days
One time, a man I was seeing remembered the first time he and I had ever met each other – even though I didn't remember.
He surprised me with a rose at my workplace. Before that, I had thought that he really didn't care about me, but once I realized that he had been keeping 'score' of our relationship, I realized that he was deeply interested in being a good man for me and interested in caring about my happiness.
6) He Looks You in the Eye
A man who can and does look you in the eye is a man with nothing to hide. When you are walking to your man about personal feelings, and he looks directly at you, you know that not only is he listening to the conversation, but he's also making sure that you know he's listening. This is a man who's honest and ready to be a part of the relationship.
7) He Likes to Touch You
Men like to express how they feel by touch at times – and this means outside of the bedroom too. When your man holds onto you and touches your shoulders, he is showing that he is proud to be with you and that he really cares about making you feel happy and safe.
I was once with a guy who I though I really liked, but I was hesitant about telling him because it seemed like something was 'off.' He was nice enough and he met my family, who adored him. But he never looked me in the eye and this made me worried. So, instead of sharing with him how I thought I felt, I just let the relationship ride out to see if he would say something first. He did. He was cheating on me with my best friend.
A man who can look you in the eye is someone you can trust not only with your words, but also with your heart. While not every man will fall into all of these seven ways, he should be fitting into most of them.===========================Is your spouse or lover abroad and they are telling you that they havelost that attraction for you?? You CAN still save your relationship (andMarriage) using my proven methods and strategies which have beenused successfully by people from ALL over the world! Learn howyou can get your Ex back and save your own Relationship TODAY!==> http://item0612.cpemo.hop.clickbank.net/
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How to Deal with Difficult In-Laws and Make Them Listen To You With Regards to Your Relationship!
How to Deal with Difficult In-Laws and Make Them Listen To You With Regards to Your Relationship!by Cucan Pemo
I've known one friend whom I feel is one of the lucky ones – her in-laws have been great. Her mother-in-law has been a wonderful new friend in her life, but she has admitted to me that it wasn't always easy the first time this way.
In the beginning of her relationship with her boyfriend, she wasn't sure if she could marry him. His parents and herself just didn't get along. They were critical of her job, her life choices, and nearly everything else that she talked about when they were together.
And while her boyfriend tried to help her get along with the parents, it just wasn't working. So, she decided that she needed to be the one to get things started. Here's what she did to make sure she could marry her boyfriend – and his family.
1) Recognize the Problems
The first thing she had to do was to sort out what the problems were, so she started keeping a journal of the disagreements that they had and tried to see if there were any patterns in the problems.
Then she found out that her job and her ability to support herself was a big problem for them. They didn't want their son to be the one who was supporting the both of them – so she needed to do her fair share too, in their opinion.
I shared with her some strategies that I would use, and she began to write out the ways that she did contribute to the relationship, down to the last penny.
This helped her to see that they did have valid concerns, but when she talked to her future husband, he said that things felt fair to him, even if the numbers were exactly split down the middle for bills.
2) Talk It Out
With this knowledge in hand, my friend had to confront the in-laws the next time that they got into the argument – and, of course, they did. This time, however, my friend had facts to back herself up. She had did her "homework" in advance.
She showed them the finances as well as her own contributions, plus she pointed out that since she was still getting her degree, she had potential to make even more income in the future.
Realizing that she had taken the time and sincerity to point out the issue, her in-laws began to be a little more comfortable with her role in their son's life.
And her would-be husband also stuck up for her and told them that he felt things were fine the way they were. She also acknowledged her in-laws' concerns and admitted that she didn't pay exactly her share, which helped them feel validated in their concerns and they felt a lot less defensive and more receptive to her feelings.
3) Stay True to Yourself
As you can see, my friend also had to find out what made her happy in this discussion. She could have admitted that she was wrong and then taken on another job to start making up the different in the financial contributions, but then during that period she was in school for an advanced degree and her schoolwork would have suffered.
If you are in similar circumstance, I suggest you stay true to yourself and to your personal goals because just giving in could have started a chain reaction of demands from your in-laws. It's a matter of boundaries. You need to realize just how far you're willing to go, but then you can't go an inch further than that.
4) Be an Active Part of the Family
Realize also that you need to stop avoiding the family and start learning more about them. By attending the family functions as your schedule allowed, you would begin to feel more like a part of the family, rather than the perpetual outsider.
This allowed you to continue the conversations you had with your in-laws and you would begin to realize where they were coming from as well. You might even find that as you get to know each other – you would even begin to like each other.
5) Making Them Listen to You
By being honest and being open about what your relationship means to you and to your partner, you will begin to command the respect of your in-laws.
You need to stay firm on things that you won't do. For example, if your in-laws keep asking about children and you don't want any, be firm and clear about the fact that you're not planning on having children. And then hold your ground.
Once they realize that your words are firm and your intentions set, they will begin to recognize this about the rest of your ideas and actions too. Once you waver or you give in to their demands - that's when you're going to find that they have even more 'ideas' for you.
Truthfully, some in-laws are never going to be helpful or friendly, but by following
this advice, at least everyone will know the parameters of the relationship.======================================Is There A Special Person Whom You Love Like No Other? Youcan bring affection, warmth, laughter and love back into your life!Amazing Home Study Course "Bring Back The Love of Your Life - A Potent 4-Step Strategy!" Will End Your Loneliness and Ensure Happiness.==> http://item0612.cpemo.hop.clickbank.net/
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I've known one friend whom I feel is one of the lucky ones – her in-laws have been great. Her mother-in-law has been a wonderful new friend in her life, but she has admitted to me that it wasn't always easy the first time this way.
In the beginning of her relationship with her boyfriend, she wasn't sure if she could marry him. His parents and herself just didn't get along. They were critical of her job, her life choices, and nearly everything else that she talked about when they were together.
And while her boyfriend tried to help her get along with the parents, it just wasn't working. So, she decided that she needed to be the one to get things started. Here's what she did to make sure she could marry her boyfriend – and his family.
1) Recognize the Problems
The first thing she had to do was to sort out what the problems were, so she started keeping a journal of the disagreements that they had and tried to see if there were any patterns in the problems.
Then she found out that her job and her ability to support herself was a big problem for them. They didn't want their son to be the one who was supporting the both of them – so she needed to do her fair share too, in their opinion.
I shared with her some strategies that I would use, and she began to write out the ways that she did contribute to the relationship, down to the last penny.
This helped her to see that they did have valid concerns, but when she talked to her future husband, he said that things felt fair to him, even if the numbers were exactly split down the middle for bills.
2) Talk It Out
With this knowledge in hand, my friend had to confront the in-laws the next time that they got into the argument – and, of course, they did. This time, however, my friend had facts to back herself up. She had did her "homework" in advance.
She showed them the finances as well as her own contributions, plus she pointed out that since she was still getting her degree, she had potential to make even more income in the future.
Realizing that she had taken the time and sincerity to point out the issue, her in-laws began to be a little more comfortable with her role in their son's life.
And her would-be husband also stuck up for her and told them that he felt things were fine the way they were. She also acknowledged her in-laws' concerns and admitted that she didn't pay exactly her share, which helped them feel validated in their concerns and they felt a lot less defensive and more receptive to her feelings.
3) Stay True to Yourself
As you can see, my friend also had to find out what made her happy in this discussion. She could have admitted that she was wrong and then taken on another job to start making up the different in the financial contributions, but then during that period she was in school for an advanced degree and her schoolwork would have suffered.
If you are in similar circumstance, I suggest you stay true to yourself and to your personal goals because just giving in could have started a chain reaction of demands from your in-laws. It's a matter of boundaries. You need to realize just how far you're willing to go, but then you can't go an inch further than that.
4) Be an Active Part of the Family
Realize also that you need to stop avoiding the family and start learning more about them. By attending the family functions as your schedule allowed, you would begin to feel more like a part of the family, rather than the perpetual outsider.
This allowed you to continue the conversations you had with your in-laws and you would begin to realize where they were coming from as well. You might even find that as you get to know each other – you would even begin to like each other.
5) Making Them Listen to You
By being honest and being open about what your relationship means to you and to your partner, you will begin to command the respect of your in-laws.
You need to stay firm on things that you won't do. For example, if your in-laws keep asking about children and you don't want any, be firm and clear about the fact that you're not planning on having children. And then hold your ground.
Once they realize that your words are firm and your intentions set, they will begin to recognize this about the rest of your ideas and actions too. Once you waver or you give in to their demands - that's when you're going to find that they have even more 'ideas' for you.
Truthfully, some in-laws are never going to be helpful or friendly, but by following
this advice, at least everyone will know the parameters of the relationship.======================================Is There A Special Person Whom You Love Like No Other? Youcan bring affection, warmth, laughter and love back into your life!Amazing Home Study Course "Bring Back The Love of Your Life - A Potent 4-Step Strategy!" Will End Your Loneliness and Ensure Happiness.==> http://item0612.cpemo.hop.clickbank.net/
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I strongly believe your strategy will bring more happiness, harmony, and fulfillment to any relationship. I can relate to many experiences that you so clearly described in the book. I wish I found your book earlier in my relationship; I will definitely be a happier person today.- D.K.
This book is for you if ...
· You are feeling broken hearted, lonely and despondent because of a relationship breakup, and you long for the return of a lost love or spouse ...
· Your spouse or lover has been having an extramarital affair, but you truly care for this person and are willing to do anything necessary to save your relationship ...
· You and your spouse or lover are fighting and quarreling almost everyday, and you want to break the barriers of stubbornness, of bitterness, and of blindness in this relationship ...
You and your spouse are facing a potential divorce, but you truely love your spouse and want to save the marriage ...
You are having a great relationship with your partner right now, but are fearful that one day your spouse or lover might betray you or leave you. Learn how to keep your lover or spouse by your side forever, without all the heartache, fear, and pain ...
Your lover or spouse has suddenly lost Interest in you for no apparent reasons, and you cannot figure out the reasons; even the so-called professionals have no real answers for you...
You have tried everything else, and nothing works for you, so you want to learn a Simple "Four Step Strategy" which always works in bringing back a lost love, no matter what type of relationship you are involved in
Using My Simple, 4-Step Strategy, Everything Clicks Into Place!
This course and book will show you ...• The One Very Important Principle which could dramatically turn your relationship around 180° exactly the way you want it! Miss this chapter, and you'll miss the whole thing! (pg. 17)• The answer to your most pressing Questions –WHY? Why did the relationship fail? Why did the relationship turn sour? Why is everything happening the way you do not wish for it to happen? Screaming to Heaven and Earth for the answers? They are right here in Chapter 3 and 4. There are some principles you wish you knew of earlier before you went into any type of relationship, or before everything went wrong! But...it's never too late! Know the reasons. Learn the answer to the question: Why? And how you could turn everything around again and go on to create even more happiness and peace in your relationship! (pg. 21 - pg. 26)• Discover one very jealously guarded secret I have used to winning back a lost love, and how to be the person who can have what you wish for. Haven't you heard before that whatever you ask for, you will receive? But why doesn't it work for you? Learn the right way to do this! It could change your life! Now this secret is so profound, having it is like possessing the midas touch - everything you have turned into gold - but do it the wrong way, and you'll never get it! (pg. 30)• Discover my proven and most powerful wish fulfilling gem - a simple, easy to follow 4-step strategy to create the type of relationship that you want! And the beauty of this is, you do not need to be a rocket scientist to do it! You need to just follow the steps, and you can do it anytime, anywhere! It works for me, allowing me to bring my true love back into my life and creating the happiness and peace I want in my relationship, all at will. If you can follow and apply the formula, you should be able get the same amazing and positive result as I did, period. (pg. 39)
• You love your lover and your spouse with all your heart, but one day he/she comes and tell you that though you love them with all your heart, they are not feeling the same way for you! Is he telling you that things aren't the same any longer? Is she giving you some hints here and there that she is meeting someone "new" out there and whom she finds more attractive? I'll reveal to you the exact steps you must use to get your lover BACK into your loving, open arms, again and KEEP them in your loving embrace. (pg. 43 - pg. 55)
• Do you feel that HE is just not that into you? Are you puzzled and frustrated that SHE is simply not responding to you, giving you cold shoulders, even pushing you away? Is your girlfriend or boyfriend wanting to separate from you because her explanation is : "I feel nothing for you anymore?!" I'll let you in the TRUTH about what's going on in their minds and just by knowing this secret will set you FREE from all the frustration and heartache, and get your lover back! (pg 68).
• What you can do to make yourself DANGEROUS to your love rival or love competitor, if you have one. This is my secret weapon to bring back the love of my life after he left me for another woman. Guys can also learn this little known tactic and once you know what this is and how it works, you can create permanent connection with your lover or spouse, and never have to worry that someone will come along one day and "snatch" him or her away from you, forever! (pg 70).
• Does your counselor, psychologist or well-meaning friends offer you such advice: "You MUST look after yourself, so you will have this great figure, try get a new hairstyle, go for grooming classes, and oh, why not try a chance (accidental) meeting, etc..." I'll tell why you can be DEAD WRONG if you follow these gurus' advice, even if they have your best interests at heart. (pg. 71)• Are you feeling at a total loss about your marriage? Are you at the point of thinking that there is no point and that you might as well move forward and forget about it? Do you feel that your spouse is not responding to you in the way you want to "feel" it and "see" it? Do you find that your lover or spouse is not showing enough commitment? Or is there a big obstacle standing in your way of having a harmonious relationship and marriage with your spouse? Do you face parental objections and objections from friends who keep telling you they have YOUR best interests in heart? Are you finding it difficult to get your long distance lover to respond to you? I'll teach you my magical 8-words sentence which you can fully master and make the world do your bidding! (pg. 71)• Is your wife giving you cold shoulders, asking you to sleep on the couch outside in the living room? Is your husband coming back home late into the night and can't be bothered to explain to you? Have you tried getting your lover to respond in some ways but they do not? Is it that they are finding other people more attractive than you are, unwilling to talk to you, and spending more time with their other secret friends? Fret not! I'll tell you how you can cut through ALL the smoke, get your lover or spouse to respond, make a connection with you. Cutting through the smoke is the hard part. YOU will soon learn why this does not require You to have good looks, a silver tongue, or infallible logic. It does not even require confidence, charisma or magnetic personality. If your wife or husband has been running away from you again and again, apply this tactic, and watch how they will be moved to tears. (pg. 83)• Is your husband being being unfaithful to you and your children, even though you have been the most caring wife to him and responsible towards his children? Why is your girlfriend making friends with other guys and finding other people more attractive than yourself? Just WHAT exactly is your lover craving for? I'll tell you exactly what your lover and spouse is carving for from other people, why it's not your fault, and why after you have learnt this principle your lover will stop flocking to other people but instead come back to you for more
of what you can give them! This principle is so easy and simple that even a child can learn and master it! (pg 94).
• I'll let you into a "cutting edge" technique on how you can protect the Love and Friendship you have with the love of your life. If you don't learn this technique, other people will and soon you will find your lover or spouse listening more and more to others rather than YOU! (pg. 102)
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The BEST And MOST HELPFUL!
"I recently bought your ebook. I would like to take this opportunity to personally thank you for this wonderful book. I feel your book is the best and most helpful one I have ever read on relationships and I have already referred some of my friends to your website.
I strongly believe your strategy will bring more happiness, harmony, and fulfillment to any relationship. I can relate to many experiences that you so clearly described in the book. I wish I found your book earlier in my relationship; I will definitely be a happier person today.- D.K.
This book is for you if ...
· You are feeling broken hearted, lonely and despondent because of a relationship breakup, and you long for the return of a lost love or spouse ...
· Your spouse or lover has been having an extramarital affair, but you truly care for this person and are willing to do anything necessary to save your relationship ...
· You and your spouse or lover are fighting and quarreling almost everyday, and you want to break the barriers of stubbornness, of bitterness, and of blindness in this relationship ...
You and your spouse are facing a potential divorce, but you truely love your spouse and want to save the marriage ...
You are having a great relationship with your partner right now, but are fearful that one day your spouse or lover might betray you or leave you. Learn how to keep your lover or spouse by your side forever, without all the heartache, fear, and pain ...
Your lover or spouse has suddenly lost Interest in you for no apparent reasons, and you cannot figure out the reasons; even the so-called professionals have no real answers for you...
You have tried everything else, and nothing works for you, so you want to learn a Simple "Four Step Strategy" which always works in bringing back a lost love, no matter what type of relationship you are involved in
Using My Simple, 4-Step Strategy, Everything Clicks Into Place!
This course and book will show you ...• The One Very Important Principle which could dramatically turn your relationship around 180° exactly the way you want it! Miss this chapter, and you'll miss the whole thing! (pg. 17)• The answer to your most pressing Questions –WHY? Why did the relationship fail? Why did the relationship turn sour? Why is everything happening the way you do not wish for it to happen? Screaming to Heaven and Earth for the answers? They are right here in Chapter 3 and 4. There are some principles you wish you knew of earlier before you went into any type of relationship, or before everything went wrong! But...it's never too late! Know the reasons. Learn the answer to the question: Why? And how you could turn everything around again and go on to create even more happiness and peace in your relationship! (pg. 21 - pg. 26)• Discover one very jealously guarded secret I have used to winning back a lost love, and how to be the person who can have what you wish for. Haven't you heard before that whatever you ask for, you will receive? But why doesn't it work for you? Learn the right way to do this! It could change your life! Now this secret is so profound, having it is like possessing the midas touch - everything you have turned into gold - but do it the wrong way, and you'll never get it! (pg. 30)• Discover my proven and most powerful wish fulfilling gem - a simple, easy to follow 4-step strategy to create the type of relationship that you want! And the beauty of this is, you do not need to be a rocket scientist to do it! You need to just follow the steps, and you can do it anytime, anywhere! It works for me, allowing me to bring my true love back into my life and creating the happiness and peace I want in my relationship, all at will. If you can follow and apply the formula, you should be able get the same amazing and positive result as I did, period. (pg. 39)
• You love your lover and your spouse with all your heart, but one day he/she comes and tell you that though you love them with all your heart, they are not feeling the same way for you! Is he telling you that things aren't the same any longer? Is she giving you some hints here and there that she is meeting someone "new" out there and whom she finds more attractive? I'll reveal to you the exact steps you must use to get your lover BACK into your loving, open arms, again and KEEP them in your loving embrace. (pg. 43 - pg. 55)
• Do you feel that HE is just not that into you? Are you puzzled and frustrated that SHE is simply not responding to you, giving you cold shoulders, even pushing you away? Is your girlfriend or boyfriend wanting to separate from you because her explanation is : "I feel nothing for you anymore?!" I'll let you in the TRUTH about what's going on in their minds and just by knowing this secret will set you FREE from all the frustration and heartache, and get your lover back! (pg 68).
• What you can do to make yourself DANGEROUS to your love rival or love competitor, if you have one. This is my secret weapon to bring back the love of my life after he left me for another woman. Guys can also learn this little known tactic and once you know what this is and how it works, you can create permanent connection with your lover or spouse, and never have to worry that someone will come along one day and "snatch" him or her away from you, forever! (pg 70).
• Does your counselor, psychologist or well-meaning friends offer you such advice: "You MUST look after yourself, so you will have this great figure, try get a new hairstyle, go for grooming classes, and oh, why not try a chance (accidental) meeting, etc..." I'll tell why you can be DEAD WRONG if you follow these gurus' advice, even if they have your best interests at heart. (pg. 71)• Are you feeling at a total loss about your marriage? Are you at the point of thinking that there is no point and that you might as well move forward and forget about it? Do you feel that your spouse is not responding to you in the way you want to "feel" it and "see" it? Do you find that your lover or spouse is not showing enough commitment? Or is there a big obstacle standing in your way of having a harmonious relationship and marriage with your spouse? Do you face parental objections and objections from friends who keep telling you they have YOUR best interests in heart? Are you finding it difficult to get your long distance lover to respond to you? I'll teach you my magical 8-words sentence which you can fully master and make the world do your bidding! (pg. 71)• Is your wife giving you cold shoulders, asking you to sleep on the couch outside in the living room? Is your husband coming back home late into the night and can't be bothered to explain to you? Have you tried getting your lover to respond in some ways but they do not? Is it that they are finding other people more attractive than you are, unwilling to talk to you, and spending more time with their other secret friends? Fret not! I'll tell you how you can cut through ALL the smoke, get your lover or spouse to respond, make a connection with you. Cutting through the smoke is the hard part. YOU will soon learn why this does not require You to have good looks, a silver tongue, or infallible logic. It does not even require confidence, charisma or magnetic personality. If your wife or husband has been running away from you again and again, apply this tactic, and watch how they will be moved to tears. (pg. 83)• Is your husband being being unfaithful to you and your children, even though you have been the most caring wife to him and responsible towards his children? Why is your girlfriend making friends with other guys and finding other people more attractive than yourself? Just WHAT exactly is your lover craving for? I'll tell you exactly what your lover and spouse is carving for from other people, why it's not your fault, and why after you have learnt this principle your lover will stop flocking to other people but instead come back to you for more
of what you can give them! This principle is so easy and simple that even a child can learn and master it! (pg 94).
• I'll let you into a "cutting edge" technique on how you can protect the Love and Friendship you have with the love of your life. If you don't learn this technique, other people will and soon you will find your lover or spouse listening more and more to others rather than YOU! (pg. 102)
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Dear Future Man Magnet,
If you are feeling completely frustrated about attracting a decent man and nothing you've tried seems to have worked, then you're not alone. I can't believe how many of my attractive and intelligent single female friends aged 20 right through to 70 are saying exactly the same things:-
"All the good men are taken." "I always seem to get the wrong guy." "No guys seem to notice me." "Guys always seem to want to be 'friends' with me."
And then they usually say something like...
"Is there something wrong with me?," or "You can't trust men..." - or even worse - "All guys are jerks."
Does any of that sound familiar?
Have you ever felt like all the good men are passing you over--to the point where you wanted to give up the hassle of dating? Or, even worse, has it ever entered your mind that you might end up “on the shelf” ? Have you ever had that sinking feeling that you might end up alone, despite knowing deep inside that what you REALLY want is a loving and fulfilling relationship? Have you ever had a panicky feeling - deep inside - that time is just slipping you by?
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Why you'll never be able to keep the man of your dreams, even if he's right there under your nose declaring undying love, unless you resolve this one issue.
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Why you're never completely happy with yourself - and how to fix that once and for all.
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The single most important thing you must do that will make men melt in your presence, and how this one small shift in your behaviour will flood your life with everything you’ve ever dreamed of.
One simple quality that will magically attract the right men into your life. It’s so stunningly powerful; My friend Susan's life transformed when she developed this one habit - and she became a man magnet extraordinaire
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The single worst mistake every woman makes with men. If you don't know these, you will put the fires of passion out in your most ardent admirer.
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The differences in how men and women think about dating... and why most men want to keep you from being successful.
The two secrets to communicating with a man that will create lasting love and affection.
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The three top things women do that turn men off and destroy intimacy completely. You probably don't even realise you are doing these.
The inside scoop from happily-married women who know about the tell-tale signs of a great guy.
How to create an emotional connection a man can't ignore the very first time you're out together (This one simple secret will keep him coming back for more)
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Dear Future Man Magnet,
If you are feeling completely frustrated about attracting a decent man and nothing you've tried seems to have worked, then you're not alone. I can't believe how many of my attractive and intelligent single female friends aged 20 right through to 70 are saying exactly the same things:-
"All the good men are taken." "I always seem to get the wrong guy." "No guys seem to notice me." "Guys always seem to want to be 'friends' with me."
And then they usually say something like...
"Is there something wrong with me?," or "You can't trust men..." - or even worse - "All guys are jerks."
Does any of that sound familiar?
Have you ever felt like all the good men are passing you over--to the point where you wanted to give up the hassle of dating? Or, even worse, has it ever entered your mind that you might end up “on the shelf” ? Have you ever had that sinking feeling that you might end up alone, despite knowing deep inside that what you REALLY want is a loving and fulfilling relationship? Have you ever had a panicky feeling - deep inside - that time is just slipping you by?
In your "Become A Man Magnet" Manualyou will discover…
A proven system that will enable you to attract men so easily that your friends will accuse you of having stolen Aladdin's magic lamp.
Why you'll never be able to keep the man of your dreams, even if he's right there under your nose declaring undying love, unless you resolve this one issue.
3 simple-steps which work on autopilot to make you instantly more desirable to any potential partner.
How to quickly let go of any past relationship stress - so you feel open and able to receive a man into your life.
The real reason why men are staying away from you - and the one thing you can do at once to turn that around.
Why you're never completely happy with yourself - and how to fix that once and for all.
Why the worst thing you can do is write down who your ideal partner is on a "wish list," unless you know the single most important value to look out for. This was an absolute mind-blower when I discovered it.
Two magic words you'll learn which will have men fighting over you.
The single most important thing you must do that will make men melt in your presence, and how this one small shift in your behaviour will flood your life with everything you’ve ever dreamed of.
One simple quality that will magically attract the right men into your life. It’s so stunningly powerful; My friend Susan's life transformed when she developed this one habit - and she became a man magnet extraordinaire
How, in 2 minutes flat, you’ll effortlessly dissolve negativity completely, and drench your life with "man miracles."
The single most crucial thing you must do before you can change your thinking to guarantee your success! (Hint: It’s such an easy “no-brainer”, you’ll wonder why you haven’t done it up to now!)
How to instantly melt away 3 “deadly” beliefs that will otherwise freeze you in your tracks, and stop you from succeeding in romance before you even begin.
The tragically common roundabout view of the world that slams the door on romance. Quickly flip this bad habit on its head, and say hello to love and intimacy!
The “one” ability you must develop if you are ever to achieve your romantic dreams! (This “shortcut-to-romance” is crucial… if you don’t have it, you’re not going to get unstuck from your rut… and you’ll never be able to be one of those happy couples!)
How you are almost certainly unknowingly pushing "men" away and how to turn that around in 5-minutes flat.
How to easily tap into a man's desire and attraction so he'll be begging you to pick HIM.
The unlikely insider secret to make your relationship "cheat-proof" and why he is 75% guaranteed to stray unless you know this.
The single worst mistake every woman makes with men. If you don't know these, you will put the fires of passion out in your most ardent admirer.
The five tell-tale signs of men who are liars and how to observe these in a few seconds. Hint: You'll need to "see" these body language signals to be able to spot them, which is why the manual is fully-illustrated with professional photos to make sure that you won't be able to miss these giveaway signs from now on.
The six tell-tale signs of men who are "safe bets" to bring you happiness and stick by you. Hint: If you don't know these, then chances are you'll either end up with a liar or a wet fish. Don't take the risk.
The differences in how men and women think about dating... and why most men want to keep you from being successful.
The two secrets to communicating with a man that will create lasting love and affection.
The truth about men who aren't "emotionally available"... how to know if you've got one and what to do if you're dating one.
The three top things women do that turn men off and destroy intimacy completely. You probably don't even realise you are doing these.
The inside scoop from happily-married women who know about the tell-tale signs of a great guy.
How to create an emotional connection a man can't ignore the very first time you're out together (This one simple secret will keep him coming back for more)
One easy habit that makes such an astonishing difference, it will “wrap its arms around you” like a long lost lover. You’ll hardly believe your eyes when you clearly see how men rush to embrace you everywhere you go! (Warning: This is habit forming… the more you feel the tingle of excitement, the more you’ll want to do it!)
You Can Guarantee Your Own Success!
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Discover How to get your Wife to want to have more Sex... and make Your Relationship Sexually Fulfilling Once More..
"Discover How to get your Wife to want to have more Sex... and make Your Relationship Sexually Fulfilling Once More..."
Even if you think you've tried everything before
by Dean Mason and Kate Dixon, - "The Sexless Marriage & Relationship Experts"
Why are some couples always passionate, enjoy steaming sex on a regular basis, and are always happy, while your wife doesn't seem to be really interested in having sex with you?
Here are some things you may not know about sexless relationships:
There are many reasons why women stop wanting sex. Unless you discover the reason, you will never find the solution.
Just because your wife stopped having sex with you doesn't mean that she doesn't love you anymore
Many couples have great sex well into their 50's and 60's so age is no excuse for letting your marriage become sexless.
If your wife doesn't seem interested in having sex with you, it doesn't mean that she's having an affair.
Sexless relationships are a symptom of deep and serious problems between you and your wife.
Sexless marriages often end up in divorce or separation.
Sexless relationships do not have to mean No Sex at all. It can also mean you're having too little of it.
You can get the sex back into your relationship if you just make up your mind to do so
Here's what our method can do for you:
Discover why you wife lost her interest in sex and it's not what you think
Find an easy way to communicate with your wife without having her shut down or avoid the subject
Ignite an internal process in your relationship that will make her madly attracted to you like she was in the past or even more
Learn how to get you wife involved in the healing process without her even knowing it
Discover simple steps which can increase the romance in your marriage
Make your relationship stronger than it was before
Eliminate the confusion and fear that the lack of sex makes you feel
Help you make sure this never happens to you two again
When you use my method in your relationship you'll discover how to get your wife to want to have sex with you as often as you like.
Here are just some of the amazing secrets you get learn from Get Her In The Mood - Make Your Woman Want You More:
What is the one thing you must avoid if you're to have any chance to fix your sexless marriage (page 81)
How to identify what caused your marriage to get to this point (page 15)
How to rekindle the passion between you and your wife (page 60)
How day-to-day life may demolish your wife's sex drive and what you can do about it (page 19)
How to make your relationship exciting again, inside the bedroom and out (page 70)
Discover how to start the process which will solve your sexless marriage and help you two be happy again (page 12)
See what you can begin to do today to make you and your wife feel much closer to one another (page 15-30)
What is this common misconception about the causes of sexless marriages and why it is dead wrong (page 11)
How to think "outside the box" and come up with new ideas which will keep your relationship exciting and fresh (page 74)
How to make sure that once you've healed your relationship it will never plummet again (page 109)
How to make your woman feel desireable again. Believe me, this is something you dare not miss out on (page 61)
Which topics of conversation may be killing your quality time together, not too mention any sex drive (page 98)
How to "turn on the steam" in your bedroom so that once you get the sex back, it'll be as exciting as possible (page 76)
SuperBonus
"101 Romance Ideas"
This is an excellent e-book with creative romance tips for you and your lady. These are great little things you can do which will make both of you feel closer. And you can do them without spending a fortune.
Use these tips to break any tension between you and your lady. None of these tips require any special effort, but the thought behind them is what counts. Your woman will appreciate them.
For more details click here
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Even if you think you've tried everything before
by Dean Mason and Kate Dixon, - "The Sexless Marriage & Relationship Experts"
Why are some couples always passionate, enjoy steaming sex on a regular basis, and are always happy, while your wife doesn't seem to be really interested in having sex with you?
Here are some things you may not know about sexless relationships:
There are many reasons why women stop wanting sex. Unless you discover the reason, you will never find the solution.
Just because your wife stopped having sex with you doesn't mean that she doesn't love you anymore
Many couples have great sex well into their 50's and 60's so age is no excuse for letting your marriage become sexless.
If your wife doesn't seem interested in having sex with you, it doesn't mean that she's having an affair.
Sexless relationships are a symptom of deep and serious problems between you and your wife.
Sexless marriages often end up in divorce or separation.
Sexless relationships do not have to mean No Sex at all. It can also mean you're having too little of it.
You can get the sex back into your relationship if you just make up your mind to do so
Here's what our method can do for you:
Discover why you wife lost her interest in sex and it's not what you think
Find an easy way to communicate with your wife without having her shut down or avoid the subject
Ignite an internal process in your relationship that will make her madly attracted to you like she was in the past or even more
Learn how to get you wife involved in the healing process without her even knowing it
Discover simple steps which can increase the romance in your marriage
Make your relationship stronger than it was before
Eliminate the confusion and fear that the lack of sex makes you feel
Help you make sure this never happens to you two again
When you use my method in your relationship you'll discover how to get your wife to want to have sex with you as often as you like.
Here are just some of the amazing secrets you get learn from Get Her In The Mood - Make Your Woman Want You More:
What is the one thing you must avoid if you're to have any chance to fix your sexless marriage (page 81)
How to identify what caused your marriage to get to this point (page 15)
How to rekindle the passion between you and your wife (page 60)
How day-to-day life may demolish your wife's sex drive and what you can do about it (page 19)
How to make your relationship exciting again, inside the bedroom and out (page 70)
Discover how to start the process which will solve your sexless marriage and help you two be happy again (page 12)
See what you can begin to do today to make you and your wife feel much closer to one another (page 15-30)
What is this common misconception about the causes of sexless marriages and why it is dead wrong (page 11)
How to think "outside the box" and come up with new ideas which will keep your relationship exciting and fresh (page 74)
How to make sure that once you've healed your relationship it will never plummet again (page 109)
How to make your woman feel desireable again. Believe me, this is something you dare not miss out on (page 61)
Which topics of conversation may be killing your quality time together, not too mention any sex drive (page 98)
How to "turn on the steam" in your bedroom so that once you get the sex back, it'll be as exciting as possible (page 76)
SuperBonus
"101 Romance Ideas"
This is an excellent e-book with creative romance tips for you and your lady. These are great little things you can do which will make both of you feel closer. And you can do them without spending a fortune.
Use these tips to break any tension between you and your lady. None of these tips require any special effort, but the thought behind them is what counts. Your woman will appreciate them.
For more details click here
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Discover How to get your Husband or Boyfriend to want to have more Sex... and make Your Relationship Sexually Fulfilling Once More
"Discover How to get your Husband or Boyfriend to want to have more Sex... and make Your Relationship Sexually Fulfilling Once More..."
Even if you think you've tried everything before
by Kate Dixon, - "The Sexless Marriage & Relationship Expert"
Why are some couples always passionate, enjoy steaming sex on a regular basis, and are always happy, while your man doesn't seem to be really interested in having sex with you?
Here are some things you may not know about sexless relationships:
Just because your man doesn't want to have sex with you doesn't mean that he stopped loving you
If your man stopped having sex with you it doesn't mean he's having an affair
Sexless relationships usually end up in divorce or separation
Sexless relationships do not have to mean No Sex at all. They can also mean infrequent or seldom sex.
You can get the sex back into your relationship if you just make up your mind to do so
Dear frustrated friend,
The important thing you need to remember is that you're not alone. All over the world there are millions of couples in which the man suddenly loses interest in having regular sex with his woman. It happens in marriages and in other long term relationships.
During my research into the subject of sexless marriages and relationships I've encountered many cases, and I can say one thing for sure: The reason why this happens to women is that they simply don't understand the male sexual and relationship mind.
The Truth is that you, by virtue of being a woman, can turn your relationship around, get the man you love to desire you badly and want to have sex with you as often as you like.
"The 5 Common Mistakes Women make in Sexless Relationships... and How To Make Sure You Avoid Them Completely!!!"
My mini-course includes:
· How to gain a better perspective about your relationship
· How To realize what really caused your marriage or relationship to become sexless
· Easy Steps To Start Growing Closer To Your Man, instead of drifting further apart
· The 1 Thing You must never do in this situation, why many women do it, and why it can virtually destroy your relationship completely
· More easy to do steps you can take starting today which will get your relationship into a healing process.
You have the power to turn your relationship around. You may not believe it now. You may feel rejected, confused, and scared that your relationship is falling apart. But don't worry. By reading this article, you've taken the first step to getting the sex back into your relationship.
Here's what my method can do for you:
Discover the real causes of why your husband or boyfriend doesn't want sex... and it's not what you think
Learn how you can start an inner process that will make him madly attracted to you just like he used to be before things turned sour
Find ways to get your man involved in the process without him knowing it
Discover how to increase the romance in your relationship
Learn new ways to spice up your sex life and get it up to a new level
Find out how to make sure this never happens to you again
When you use my method you'll discover just how to get your man to want to have sex with you exactly as often as you like.
Here are just some of the amazing secrets I reveal in Get Him In The Mood... How To Get Your Husband To Want You More:
What is the one thing which you have to stop in order to have any chance of rekindling the passion in your relationship (See page 89)
What is this all too common cause of sexless relationships (See page 30)
How to talk to your man about your problems without having him shut down (See page 120)
What is the one emotion which can ruin your relationship beyond any hope of recovery and how to eradicate it (See page 97)
What to do when your man is having a hard time at work and how it may effect your sex life (See page 32)
Discover how it is completely in your power to get your husband or boyfriend to want to have more sex with you (See page 8)
What is the one inner process you have to undertake before your sexless relationship problems can be solved (See page 45)
What is the common assumption of women in sexless relationships and why is it completely wrong (See page 11)
What does it really mean that your man doesn't want to have sex with you (See page 35)
How to get your man involved in the process of healing your relationship without having to spell it out to him (See page 112)
What is the one thing you must never do in the inner process you must complete before getting your man sexually interested in you again (See page 61)
What is the one thing about your previous sex life which probably causes your relationship to turn sexless (See page 21)
How you can turn your relationship around and make it strong and happy again (See page 41)
How to become wildly sexy in the eyes of your man (See page 64)
How to think "outside the box" and come up with new ways to bring back the intimacy into your relationship (See page 108)
What is the one huge mistake couples make in their relationship and which may have caused yours to plummet (See page 16)
How to "turn up the heat" in your bedroom so that once you start having sex again, it'll be the best sex you've ever had (See page 141)
For more details click here
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Even if you think you've tried everything before
by Kate Dixon, - "The Sexless Marriage & Relationship Expert"
Why are some couples always passionate, enjoy steaming sex on a regular basis, and are always happy, while your man doesn't seem to be really interested in having sex with you?
Here are some things you may not know about sexless relationships:
Just because your man doesn't want to have sex with you doesn't mean that he stopped loving you
If your man stopped having sex with you it doesn't mean he's having an affair
Sexless relationships usually end up in divorce or separation
Sexless relationships do not have to mean No Sex at all. They can also mean infrequent or seldom sex.
You can get the sex back into your relationship if you just make up your mind to do so
Dear frustrated friend,
The important thing you need to remember is that you're not alone. All over the world there are millions of couples in which the man suddenly loses interest in having regular sex with his woman. It happens in marriages and in other long term relationships.
During my research into the subject of sexless marriages and relationships I've encountered many cases, and I can say one thing for sure: The reason why this happens to women is that they simply don't understand the male sexual and relationship mind.
The Truth is that you, by virtue of being a woman, can turn your relationship around, get the man you love to desire you badly and want to have sex with you as often as you like.
"The 5 Common Mistakes Women make in Sexless Relationships... and How To Make Sure You Avoid Them Completely!!!"
My mini-course includes:
· How to gain a better perspective about your relationship
· How To realize what really caused your marriage or relationship to become sexless
· Easy Steps To Start Growing Closer To Your Man, instead of drifting further apart
· The 1 Thing You must never do in this situation, why many women do it, and why it can virtually destroy your relationship completely
· More easy to do steps you can take starting today which will get your relationship into a healing process.
You have the power to turn your relationship around. You may not believe it now. You may feel rejected, confused, and scared that your relationship is falling apart. But don't worry. By reading this article, you've taken the first step to getting the sex back into your relationship.
Here's what my method can do for you:
Discover the real causes of why your husband or boyfriend doesn't want sex... and it's not what you think
Learn how you can start an inner process that will make him madly attracted to you just like he used to be before things turned sour
Find ways to get your man involved in the process without him knowing it
Discover how to increase the romance in your relationship
Learn new ways to spice up your sex life and get it up to a new level
Find out how to make sure this never happens to you again
When you use my method you'll discover just how to get your man to want to have sex with you exactly as often as you like.
Here are just some of the amazing secrets I reveal in Get Him In The Mood... How To Get Your Husband To Want You More:
What is the one thing which you have to stop in order to have any chance of rekindling the passion in your relationship (See page 89)
What is this all too common cause of sexless relationships (See page 30)
How to talk to your man about your problems without having him shut down (See page 120)
What is the one emotion which can ruin your relationship beyond any hope of recovery and how to eradicate it (See page 97)
What to do when your man is having a hard time at work and how it may effect your sex life (See page 32)
Discover how it is completely in your power to get your husband or boyfriend to want to have more sex with you (See page 8)
What is the one inner process you have to undertake before your sexless relationship problems can be solved (See page 45)
What is the common assumption of women in sexless relationships and why is it completely wrong (See page 11)
What does it really mean that your man doesn't want to have sex with you (See page 35)
How to get your man involved in the process of healing your relationship without having to spell it out to him (See page 112)
What is the one thing you must never do in the inner process you must complete before getting your man sexually interested in you again (See page 61)
What is the one thing about your previous sex life which probably causes your relationship to turn sexless (See page 21)
How you can turn your relationship around and make it strong and happy again (See page 41)
How to become wildly sexy in the eyes of your man (See page 64)
How to think "outside the box" and come up with new ways to bring back the intimacy into your relationship (See page 108)
What is the one huge mistake couples make in their relationship and which may have caused yours to plummet (See page 16)
How to "turn up the heat" in your bedroom so that once you start having sex again, it'll be the best sex you've ever had (See page 141)
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5 Facts You MUST Understand If You Are Ever Going To Fix Your Sexless Marriage & Enjoy the Kind of Intimacy You Deserve
Fix Your Sexless Marriage - Help To Save Marriages
5 Facts You MUST Understand If You Are Ever Going
To Fix Your Sexless Marriage & Enjoy the Kind of
Intimacy You Deserve
1. A sexless marriage isn't a problem in itself. It's a symptom of something much deeper. Trying to solve the symptom instead of the problem can actually make things worse between you. If you really want to get the sex back into your marriage you must look deeper to find the real cause.
2. This isn't something which only you experience. It is estimated that over 15% of couples live in sexless relationships. For years this problem has been swept under the rug. On this website it will be ignored no longer. You have come to the right place to start getting your marriage back on track.
3. Sexless marriages aren't the result of aging. There are plenty of couples who have regular sex well into their 70's and 80's. On the other hand, there are many couples who fall into a sexless situation in their 30's or even 20's. Age is no excuse to stop having sex.
4. Trying to read one of those so-called expert books on how to improve a couple's sex life won't help. You need something which provides a true solution for YOU. The reason is that these books are written for men and women both. This isn't the way to go. You need something which is specifically for you.
5. Waiting for this situation to clear up on its own is like saying goodbye to sex forever. Don't bury your head in the sand, it is up to you to find the solution for your sexless marriage. Some couples go on for years without having sex. Don't let this happen to you.
The statistics of sexless marriages
Does staying with your partner seem more and more like staying with a roommate than with a spouse? Has it been ‘ages’ since you’ve had some soul-refreshing, heart-warming intimacy? Well, you are not alone.
Sexless relationships, reports and surveys suggest, is on the rise. In fact, it is believed that more than 15% of marriages in the US are of the brother-sister kind.
Here are some shocking statistics relating to sexless marriages:
According to Newsweek, more than 18% of couples have sex as little as 10 times a year, making them fall into what experts call the ‘sexless marriage’ category.
Another survey in the Newsweek shows that most married couples have sex about once every week. By contrast, unmarried singles have sex up to three times a week!
About 20-25% of men and 30-50% of women complain about their lack of sex drive.
About 25% of Americans, mostly women, suffer from a condition called Hypoactive Sexual Desire (HSD) which is a condition in which the person feels a persistent lack of interest in sex.
While experts suggest that you can define your marriage as sexless only if you are having sex less than 10 times a year, the truth of the fact is that you cannot quantify sex. How much sex you want varies from person to person and age to age. For a couple in their sixties, sex once a month may be more than sufficient, but for a couple in their thirties, this is a worrying pattern indeed.
What with pressures from work, children, life and circumstances, the only way to keep your marriage going strong is to invest time and energy in the relationship continuously. Statistics notwithstanding, psychologists opine that every marriage faces these difficult conditions at some time or the other, but it need not really spell the end of the relationship.
For more details click here
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5 Facts You MUST Understand If You Are Ever Going
To Fix Your Sexless Marriage & Enjoy the Kind of
Intimacy You Deserve
1. A sexless marriage isn't a problem in itself. It's a symptom of something much deeper. Trying to solve the symptom instead of the problem can actually make things worse between you. If you really want to get the sex back into your marriage you must look deeper to find the real cause.
2. This isn't something which only you experience. It is estimated that over 15% of couples live in sexless relationships. For years this problem has been swept under the rug. On this website it will be ignored no longer. You have come to the right place to start getting your marriage back on track.
3. Sexless marriages aren't the result of aging. There are plenty of couples who have regular sex well into their 70's and 80's. On the other hand, there are many couples who fall into a sexless situation in their 30's or even 20's. Age is no excuse to stop having sex.
4. Trying to read one of those so-called expert books on how to improve a couple's sex life won't help. You need something which provides a true solution for YOU. The reason is that these books are written for men and women both. This isn't the way to go. You need something which is specifically for you.
5. Waiting for this situation to clear up on its own is like saying goodbye to sex forever. Don't bury your head in the sand, it is up to you to find the solution for your sexless marriage. Some couples go on for years without having sex. Don't let this happen to you.
The statistics of sexless marriages
Does staying with your partner seem more and more like staying with a roommate than with a spouse? Has it been ‘ages’ since you’ve had some soul-refreshing, heart-warming intimacy? Well, you are not alone.
Sexless relationships, reports and surveys suggest, is on the rise. In fact, it is believed that more than 15% of marriages in the US are of the brother-sister kind.
Here are some shocking statistics relating to sexless marriages:
According to Newsweek, more than 18% of couples have sex as little as 10 times a year, making them fall into what experts call the ‘sexless marriage’ category.
Another survey in the Newsweek shows that most married couples have sex about once every week. By contrast, unmarried singles have sex up to three times a week!
About 20-25% of men and 30-50% of women complain about their lack of sex drive.
About 25% of Americans, mostly women, suffer from a condition called Hypoactive Sexual Desire (HSD) which is a condition in which the person feels a persistent lack of interest in sex.
While experts suggest that you can define your marriage as sexless only if you are having sex less than 10 times a year, the truth of the fact is that you cannot quantify sex. How much sex you want varies from person to person and age to age. For a couple in their sixties, sex once a month may be more than sufficient, but for a couple in their thirties, this is a worrying pattern indeed.
What with pressures from work, children, life and circumstances, the only way to keep your marriage going strong is to invest time and energy in the relationship continuously. Statistics notwithstanding, psychologists opine that every marriage faces these difficult conditions at some time or the other, but it need not really spell the end of the relationship.
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How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me. How To Meet A Beautiful, Intelligent, Educated And Sincere Russian Woman Online
How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me. How To Meet A Beautiful, Intelligent, Educated And Sincere Russian Woman Online - Starting A Relationship, Dating, And Ultimately Marriage. Elena Petrova: E-book"How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me"
Learn how to easily find, court and finally marry a beautiful Russian woman... from a beautiful Russian woman!
STOP wasting your time and money in search for a Russian wife!
Get it done - easily, painlessly and certainly! And have lots of fun along the way! Slay your competition and become an irresistible magnet for Russian women... because you know exactly what they want and how to give it to them.
Stop guessing, and start getting girls! You will have more beautiful women that want to be with you than you can handle! YOU will be the one to take your pick!
Yes, YOU - you personally, my visitor - YOU can find and marry a girl like me!
Look a the picture on the right - it's me. Do you want a girl like this to be your wife? It is perfectly do-able. And I will show you HOW.
Elena Petrova: E-book"How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me"
Learn how to easily find, court and finally marry a beautiful Russian woman... from a beautiful Russian woman!
STOP wasting your time and money in search for a Russian wife!
Get it done - easily, painlessly and certainly! And have lots of fun along the way! Slay your competition and become an irresistible magnet for Russian women... because you know exactly what they want and how to give it to them.
Stop guessing, and start getting girls! You will have more beautiful women that want to be with you than you can handle! YOU will be the one to take your pick!
Yes, YOU - you personally, my visitor - YOU can find and marry a girl like me!
Look a the picture on the right - it's me. Do you want a girl like this to be your wife? It is perfectly do-able. And I will show you HOW.
There are no magic tricks about it. You don't have to be rich, or famous, or handsome, or have a body like Hercules. In fact, your appearance and money mean nothing. You must just know what Russian women want - and give it to them. ANY man can do it!
Why is this name for the book, "How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me"?
Well, it's not that I am big-headed or think I am a dream of every man!
The reason for this name is the fact that for the years that I am working in the dating industry I received hundreds of letters that said "I wish I could find a woman like you", and even more that said "Your husband is a very lucky man".
This is why this book is about finding a girl like me.
I feel that most men seek the same qualities in their potential mates: honesty, integrity, intelligence, faithfulness, kindness, the desire for mutual cooperation rather than competition, and of course physical attractiveness.
The criteria of what a particular man finds attractive differ from man to man but the ultimate criteria of what a man desires in a wife are universal.
With this information, you can:
· Change the way you see Internet dating;
· Learn what you must know before contacting Russian women, or your search is doomed;
· Understand what Russian women REALLY want, why do they want it, and how you can give it to them;
· Use your competition to your benefit;
· Search for your dream woman at the right places and avoid the wrong ones;
· Write letters that receive responses 9 out of 10;
· Get ready-to-use letters that drive women mad... about you;
· Make such a striking impression on women that makes you the only man they can think of;
· Select the most suitable partner from all the beautiful girls that want to be with you;
· Learn how to check that the woman's interest is genuine;
· Progress your relationship from the first letter to marriage;
· Find out what Russian women fears are and how to deal with them;
· Avoid hidden traps of Russian courting etiquette;
· Find out how you can unknowingly destroy your relationship with little or no action at all, and how to avoid it;
· Learn what is the best way to organize your personal meeting;
· Find out what is the biggest turn-off for Russian women in their relationship with western men;
· Discover what Russian women expect from a man who is courting them;
· Learn the most important things about giving gifts and shopping with Russian women;
· Find out which popular western phrase can destroy your perfect relationship in an instant;
· Find out how to detect if she is ready for sex;
· Learn the right way to start a sexual relationship with a Russian woman and how to avoid embarrassment if things don't work the way they should;
· Find out about marriage proposals to Russian women;
· Glide your way through marriage visas and ways to bring your fiancee into your home country;
· Learn how to survive visa application period and use it to strengthen your relationship;
· Ensure the woman is getting married to YOU and not to your country;
· Find out what women feel when moving to a new country to marry a foreign man, and what she expects from you during this process;
· Prevent regular problems of adaptation and homesickness;
· Get practical, easy-to-use advice on do's and don'ts on every stage of your search, from beginning to the end, to GUARANTEE your success.
All in all, with this book you will get all the know-how that enables you To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me - intelligent, educated, honest, and of course physically attractive.
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Learn how to easily find, court and finally marry a beautiful Russian woman... from a beautiful Russian woman!
STOP wasting your time and money in search for a Russian wife!
Get it done - easily, painlessly and certainly! And have lots of fun along the way! Slay your competition and become an irresistible magnet for Russian women... because you know exactly what they want and how to give it to them.
Stop guessing, and start getting girls! You will have more beautiful women that want to be with you than you can handle! YOU will be the one to take your pick!
Yes, YOU - you personally, my visitor - YOU can find and marry a girl like me!
Look a the picture on the right - it's me. Do you want a girl like this to be your wife? It is perfectly do-able. And I will show you HOW.
Elena Petrova: E-book"How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me"
Learn how to easily find, court and finally marry a beautiful Russian woman... from a beautiful Russian woman!
STOP wasting your time and money in search for a Russian wife!
Get it done - easily, painlessly and certainly! And have lots of fun along the way! Slay your competition and become an irresistible magnet for Russian women... because you know exactly what they want and how to give it to them.
Stop guessing, and start getting girls! You will have more beautiful women that want to be with you than you can handle! YOU will be the one to take your pick!
Yes, YOU - you personally, my visitor - YOU can find and marry a girl like me!
Look a the picture on the right - it's me. Do you want a girl like this to be your wife? It is perfectly do-able. And I will show you HOW.
There are no magic tricks about it. You don't have to be rich, or famous, or handsome, or have a body like Hercules. In fact, your appearance and money mean nothing. You must just know what Russian women want - and give it to them. ANY man can do it!
Why is this name for the book, "How To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me"?
Well, it's not that I am big-headed or think I am a dream of every man!
The reason for this name is the fact that for the years that I am working in the dating industry I received hundreds of letters that said "I wish I could find a woman like you", and even more that said "Your husband is a very lucky man".
This is why this book is about finding a girl like me.
I feel that most men seek the same qualities in their potential mates: honesty, integrity, intelligence, faithfulness, kindness, the desire for mutual cooperation rather than competition, and of course physical attractiveness.
The criteria of what a particular man finds attractive differ from man to man but the ultimate criteria of what a man desires in a wife are universal.
With this information, you can:
· Change the way you see Internet dating;
· Learn what you must know before contacting Russian women, or your search is doomed;
· Understand what Russian women REALLY want, why do they want it, and how you can give it to them;
· Use your competition to your benefit;
· Search for your dream woman at the right places and avoid the wrong ones;
· Write letters that receive responses 9 out of 10;
· Get ready-to-use letters that drive women mad... about you;
· Make such a striking impression on women that makes you the only man they can think of;
· Select the most suitable partner from all the beautiful girls that want to be with you;
· Learn how to check that the woman's interest is genuine;
· Progress your relationship from the first letter to marriage;
· Find out what Russian women fears are and how to deal with them;
· Avoid hidden traps of Russian courting etiquette;
· Find out how you can unknowingly destroy your relationship with little or no action at all, and how to avoid it;
· Learn what is the best way to organize your personal meeting;
· Find out what is the biggest turn-off for Russian women in their relationship with western men;
· Discover what Russian women expect from a man who is courting them;
· Learn the most important things about giving gifts and shopping with Russian women;
· Find out which popular western phrase can destroy your perfect relationship in an instant;
· Find out how to detect if she is ready for sex;
· Learn the right way to start a sexual relationship with a Russian woman and how to avoid embarrassment if things don't work the way they should;
· Find out about marriage proposals to Russian women;
· Glide your way through marriage visas and ways to bring your fiancee into your home country;
· Learn how to survive visa application period and use it to strengthen your relationship;
· Ensure the woman is getting married to YOU and not to your country;
· Find out what women feel when moving to a new country to marry a foreign man, and what she expects from you during this process;
· Prevent regular problems of adaptation and homesickness;
· Get practical, easy-to-use advice on do's and don'ts on every stage of your search, from beginning to the end, to GUARANTEE your success.
All in all, with this book you will get all the know-how that enables you To Find And Marry A Girl Like Me - intelligent, educated, honest, and of course physically attractive.
For more details click here
Get It & Download It Now
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